Don't go out somewhere too nice.
DON'T WEAR SOMETHING TOO STYLISH.
I can't stress these two points enough. Women, you make men uneasy when you show up for a coffee date looking like you're going to the theater afterwards. Just dress casual. Guys won't tell you this but it's a real turnoff even though you think you look good. Dress casual for a coffee date and you'll see that guys will be more relaxed around you.
Don't complain about what i wrote, just do it and you'll find out for yourself............unless you're chickens