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A photo? Is it male or female?.




morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 8:56 AM CST
You have raised some interesting points, but like everyone else i think you have to be careful and minimize the risks as much as possible.
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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 8:56 AM CST
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Actually, I'm Hillary Clinton incognito. I'm looking for votes.
D'oh! somehow i knew that indy







timeshifter......you won't know for sure until you try.........start with innocent emails that reveal nothing of your real name/address/phone or anything that could lead her to find these things out.....once you trust her then you can reveal. or do like a friend of mine......find out her information then run checks on her to find out if she is being honest or not. sounds to me tho that you're too skittish to try the online thing and maybe you need to wait a while yet to try thisdunno but hey all this is just my opinion
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 8:57 AM CST
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They would use the picture the stole to attract interest. If i wanted to know all about the sexuality of a young female, i will pose a picture of a female and befriend her and find out all about her over time. Anyone that would be up to that will probably end up raping the girl or killing her..........................................This internet aint right. Its basically a television for rapists, murderers, pedophiles and in general scum. They are not on the streets anymore looking for isolated victims. Unfortunately, they are now SELECTING them by age, gender, hair colour, eye colour, stature.......................etc etc.

Why would this scum want to hunt their victim in society on a random basis when they can sit down at a pc and select what they would like to rape, torture and kill. These sites are the root of murder and rape. I wonder is that really the purpose of them...................euhhh.............this internet is weird................i have a bad feeling about it
Well there are good/bad people everywhere..just not on the net alone..ur neighbor could be one of them..just have to use your common since
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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 8:57 AM CST
Hello,I always ask them to cam and am ready with the ignore button should something come up I don't want to see,if he/she is serious about finding their soul mate? they can afford a twenty dollar cam,that is not much to find mr/mss wonderful,simple.as far as knowing the person? well you will have to be the one that decides that after conversing with them,I have have so called men email/instant message me and when I ask them to prove who they are they get upset,time for the ignore button then,just a thought,good luck,mewave
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breath
Small town, Virginia USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 8:59 AM CST
"Why does everyone believe that a pedophile is sexually attracted to children?", you ask.
This is why:
From the Dictionary...
Pedophilia or paedophilia (see spelling differences) is the primary or exclusive sexual attraction by adults to prepubescent youths. A person with this attraction is called a pedophile or paedophile.

Yep, it's true... we don't know who is really 'behind the mask', so to speak, when chatting to or getting to know people online.
The answer to "how do we really know?" is simply that we can't know!
We can *think* we do... but until using web cam, or meet, we just don't know for sure.


troll be careful

~breath
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Timeshifter
Ireland Ireland
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:02 AM CST
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Well why use it then??
Exactly. Why are any of us using it? Good question. Is it because we are stupid?angel
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:03 AM CST
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Well there are good/bad people everywhere..just not on the net alone..ur neighbor could be one of them..just have to use your common since
thumbs up
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:03 AM CST
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Exactly. Why are any of us using it? Good question. Is it because we are stupid?
Hey....we are using it for many different reasons....just to chat..being lonely...making friends...passing the time..it dont make us stupid
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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:04 AM CST
one other thing,timeshifter pointed out that emails are a waste until or unless you know,so true and I agree,time is important to us,even IF it is to simply be here or what have you it is our time so emails are good but unless you know it is the person behind the pic? they have no substance,not being harsh just being real folks,check this out,for instance we have 27000 days from the time we are born until we die that is an approximation but close and that does not include incidents of life,ie,cancer,wrecks,murder etc.so time is important because it is yours.
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Pptrixibell
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:05 AM CST
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Exactly. Why are any of us using it? Good question. Is it because we are stupid?
I wouldn't say that, but personally I use it to meet people and make friends....each to their own.....but it doesn't stop me from being careful....again its the chance you take, if you're not willing to take the chance minimising risks, then why bother using it??
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:07 AM CST
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Exactly. Why are any of us using it? Good question. Is it because we are stupid?
Don't think were stupid, if were responsible . Think you can be more at risk going for a night out. I have meet some great people on here, and i feel safe.
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Timeshifter
Ireland Ireland
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:08 AM CST
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"Why does everyone believe that a pedophile is sexually attracted to children?", you ask.
This is why:
From the Dictionary...
Pedophilia or paedophilia (see spelling differences) is the primary or exclusive sexual attraction by adults to prepubescent youths. A person with this attraction is called a pedophile or paedophile.

Yep, it's true... we don't know who is really 'behind the mask', so to speak, when chatting to or getting to know people online.
The answer to "how do we really know?" is simply that we can't know!
We can *think* we do... but until using web cam, or meet, we just don't know for sure.


be careful

~breath
Yes their primary is to rape kids but will suffice with raping adults as well.

Yeah the web cam, he is the one. Everyone should use webcam or they shoud fuck off till they buy one. Good points. Very good advice. Thank you.

angel
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Timeshifter
Ireland Ireland
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:10 AM CST
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somehow i knew that indy







timeshifter......you won't know for sure until you try.........start with innocent emails that reveal nothing of your real name/address/phone or anything that could lead her to find these things out.....once you trust her then you can reveal. or do like a friend of mine......find out her information then run checks on her to find out if she is being honest or not. sounds to me tho that you're too skittish to try the online thing and maybe you need to wait a while yet to try this but hey all this is just my opinion
Yeah i agree, i might give this online stuff a miss, go out in my town and find a girl i can see with my eyes. Thank youangel
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Timeshifter
Ireland Ireland
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:14 AM CST
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Well there are good/bad people everywhere..just not on the net alone..ur neighbor could be one of them..just have to use your common since
I think my neighbour is one.............i aint sure, cos you cant tell who they are...angel angel
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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:15 AM CST
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I know all that, but what about all the wasted time mailing them. Iheard once that there is also personality thieves online. These sickos try to imitate you. You can hit sites and steal photos of peoples and use.........................This internet...euhhh i dont know.
if you pay attention, you can get a good grip on people. I've had "fake" ones contact me. It gets easier as time goes on to understand the process. A lot of times, I will go with the 20 question game. I ask you 20 questions, you answer them, and then ask me 20 questions. I mix the questions up, funny, serious etc...then the rule is that you have to also answer your own questions. IF they even make it through all of that, you can tell a lot by their answers. It gives me a good clue, at least.
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:16 AM CST
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Yes their primary is to rape kids but will suffice with raping adults as well.

Yeah the web cam, he is the one. Everyone should use webcam or they shoud fuck off till they buy one. Good points. Very good advice. Thank you.

Lanuage please, little out of order i think !
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Pptrixibell
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:17 AM CST
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Lanuage please, little out of order i think !
I agree, no need for it
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Timeshifter
Ireland Ireland
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:17 AM CST
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one other thing,timeshifter pointed out that emails are a waste until or unless you know,so true and I agree,time is important to us,even IF it is to simply be here or what have you it is our time so emails are good but unless you know it is the person behind the pic? they have no substance,not being harsh just being real folks,check this out,for instance we have 27000 days from the time we are born until we die that is an approximation but close and that does not include incidents of life,ie,cancer,wrecks,murder etc.so time is important because it is yours.
Thank you. And your 27000 days is dramatically fleeced when you are on the net and have your address splattered all over it. Why do want people to know where you live everyone?angel
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:18 AM CST
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I think my neighbour is one.............i aint sure, cos you cant tell who they are...
well a person cant keep themselves lock away and never take chances...i am sure alot of us are good judge of characters and some are not..but hopefully we learn by our mistakes and no one gets hurt along the way...
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Pptrixibell
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Posted: Jan 12, 2008, 9:20 AM CST
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Yeah i agree, i might give this online stuff a miss, go out in my town and find a girl i can see with my eyes. Thank you
If you're comfier with that method then perhaps it's better to stick with the devil you know then...
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