It's time for me to tell the truth

Zellarrone1
Hull, Humberside, England UK

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:36 AM CST

I think your posts are good advice Buster

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Buster123
Right Here, England UK

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:36 AM CST

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.Somebody out there is missing out,somebody out there doesn't even realize her needs for her own search, are an email or a flower away...Hang in there bro.... you've told the universe you are ready and in the grand sceme of things you are far to important to be ignored..... she's coming
bro stay you.....

I disagree, I think the worse thing we can do sometimes is tell someone, Wait a while, there is someone out there. That is kind of lying to them to make them feel better, We don't know if there is someone out there for us all. Some people are single forever even if they don't like it being that way. Simple fact of life.
I think the best thing to tell someone in that situation is cold hard truth.
Maybe there will be someone, maybe not,

BUT LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT

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rivame
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:38 AM CST

Daniel....Its not surprising that you chose this picture.Nor that you say the angel is missing.

He is arch angel Michael...a protector. Ask him to wrap his cloak around you and give you comfort and protection. Also ask him to use his sword to cut the ties which bind you to the past.

Until you leave the past behind... your steps into the future will always be weighed down. You need to heal from you previous relationship before you can give yourself to a new one.

Like said before do some healing...friends can help but in the end it all comes down to you..

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Buster123
Right Here, England UK

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:39 AM CST

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Post: I think your posts are good advice Buster

Cheers Zell, I didn't mean to rant, it's just a personal irritant of mine when I personally get told by the people around me that this will happen or that will happen ....... how the f**k does anyone know that LOL

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:42 AM CST

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Cheers Zell, I didn't mean to rant, it's just a personal irritant of mine when I personally get told by the people around me that this will happen or that will happen ....... how the f**k does anyone know that LOL

Some people may feel you are being harsh, but i think you are being realistic.

and i agree

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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:48 AM CST

I don't know if it help,but my cousin died this morning,he was only 50 years old,he will never be able to love anybody never again,he will not be able to say even that he is not happy,there is more than you think waiting for you in your life,maybe not right now,but future it's what you need to looking for....
We always wish you the best

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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:49 AM CST

Until you leave the past behind... your steps into the future will always be weighed down. You need to heal from you previous relationship before you can give yourself to a new one.

Like said before do some healing...friends can help but in the end it all comes down to you..

You're absolutely right Dear.

Here's to new beginnings!

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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:49 AM CST

We just need to be there for our friends good/bad ...they all give opinions its up to us to take what they say or not..but no reason to be rude to anyone..lets just be there for someone who is having a bad day..

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Zellarrone1
Hull, Humberside, England UK

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:50 AM CST

Buster

I know you weren't ranting

I could see where you were coming from with your replies.

I'll be the one ranting in a minute. I still haven't worked out how to quote a post to reply to

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:50 AM CST

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Living life to the full my friend is more than having a partner with us. We need to be happy with who we are, with what we do, and ourselves before we can look for that special someone out there.
You sound like you are suffering from depression, its not the first time I've seen you post so negatively. If you are not finding yourself a soulmate or a girlfriend, it could be because she is seeing this side of you. Take yourself off to a doctor, take some time out from all this online stuff,
I know people will say, "stay here Daniel, we are your friends" and they will do so with the best intentions, but sometimes this is what suffocates us, you need time to re-coup, to breath,
take up a new hobby, and breath a lot of fresh air.
Good luck to you my friend.

Thank you Buster.. Very good advice, I was told to read this by a friend who called me on the phone, and I see that someone has posted to me to read it as well.. I may do that.. I'm just so so tired..
Thanks, and thanks to all that have posted...

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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:50 AM CST

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Cheers Zell, I didn't mean to rant, it's just a personal irritant of mine when I personally get told by the people around me that this will happen or that will happen ....... how the f**k does anyone know that LOL

True, but don't despair, Buster. I have a strong feeling the woman who will complete you and give meaning and happiness to your life is virtually almost around the next corner...

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ImTan
streets in Bangkok, Amphoe Bang Kapi Thailand

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:51 AM CST

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Maybe there will be someone, maybe not,

BUT LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT

It's all up to you Daniel. You have to exert more effort in finding your woman. Just hang on, I know she will find her way to your heart or the other way around.

Lou

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Buster123
Right Here, England UK

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:52 AM CST

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True, but don't despair, Buster. I have a strong feeling the woman who will complete you and give meaning and happiness to your life is virtually almost around the next corner...

LOL very sharp

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rivame
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:53 AM CST

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Here's to new beginnings!

new begginings sound so much better..

than old endings..

morning H...

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Conrad73
Lonesome Town Zurich , Zrich Switzerland

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:54 AM CST

Danel,I know how you're feeling.
Somedays I am just limping along,only the Hope of,Maybe Some Day,is keeping me going.
It's not that I can't live alone,I just don't want to anymore.
But then,it might happen,or it might not.
I only know that today i have to live Life on Life's terms or go under.
And can only hope that tomorrow,when it comes is better than today.
All I can say is,Hang in there,Friend.

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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:57 AM CST

new begginings sound so much better..

than old endings..

morning H...

Morning U

The beauty is that it's a new beginning every day!

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 10:58 AM CST

You have put so much into one relationship and for what?

To love, is to "risk" not being loved in return. If someone you care abot is so full of fear about being in a relationship, why would you want them? I have "hinted" to some before about the possibilities, they avoid the subject like the plague. I quickly lose any interest, I do not want someone in my life unless they truly want to be there. JMO

To be in a loving rerlationship, both parties must be "available" mentally, spirituall, physically, and emotionally. So many are not. They may say they are, but they have yet to learn to truly "live" with themselves....

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 11:00 AM CST

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Daniel....Its not surprising that you chose this picture.Nor that you say the angel is missing.

He is arch angel Michael...a protector. Ask him to wrap his cloak around you and give you comfort and protection. Also ask him to use his sword to cut the ties which bind you to the past.

Until you leave the past behind... your steps into the future will always be weighed down. You need to heal from you previous relationship before you can give yourself to a new one.

Like said before do some healing...friends can help but in the end it all comes down to you..

Yeah, and you know who one of them is that made my life a living hell.. no need to say any names...

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rivame
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 11:02 AM CST

HJFinAZ....

well said...

can only disagree with one part......

I have never known you to just hint at anything.........

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 14, 2008, 11:02 AM CST

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You have put so much into one relationship and for what?

To love, is to "risk" not being loved in return. If someone you care abot is so full of fear about being in a relationship, why would you want them? I have "hinted" to some before about the possibilities, they avoid the subject like the plague. I quickly lose any interest, I do not want someone in my life unless they truly want to be there. JMO

To be in a loving rerlationship, both parties must be "available" mentally, spirituall, physically, and emotionally. So many are not. They may say they are, but they have yet to learn to truly "live" with themselves

Very true.. the last one really didn't put nearly as much into it as i did...but I still did try..

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