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awww thank you babs...

Maybe don't try so hard. Sometimes being too clingy or mushy scares women off. ..

I have no idea really Daniel why you are feeling so low but it seems that you may not have got over your last breakup. I remember when you two got together then I went away for 6 months and when I came back it was all over.

If I'm right then all I can say is try to accept it and move on, easy for me to say I know but time does heal, particularly if you help the process by looking at the present and to the future.....as a happy single man.

2008 will my year.. the new Daniel has stepped forward... look out..

Thanks Lion..

It's really not that Jan, it's a lot of things.. my mother's death and some bad news I got today.. just a lot of things, but I will be ok.. I always am eventually.. just need some time that's all.. Thank Jan..

Daniel, Daniel, Daniel...

You do not need someone to make life worth living. Just existing? In order to be fully happy in a relationship, you need to be fully happy with your life alone. There's nothing wrong with wanting a relationship. We all do, but say you merely exist without one?

I personally am stopping looking for love for the entire year. If Mr. Right comes along this year, great. If not, oh well. I'm going to do all the things that I put off while with the "Hurricane", get my life in 100% order, and make myself happy. If he hasn't come along by December 31, 2008, which is my goal for completing all the things I want to do, I will go back to looking for him.

I've been systematically deleting all the profiles that I remember I have. This is the only one staying and thats for my friends here in the forums.

I want someone with me to share the experiences with, but I'm not just going to exist while I wait for him. I am going to live my life to the fullest, so I have no regrets for what I "could have" done in my times without a relationship.

B_E_A_U_Tifully said.......

And my response to that was this jodi





I didn't mean that I have to be in a relationship to be able to live.. before I met my last ex, I was alone for two years before I started seeing someone, and I was happy with who I was, and still am.. it's not because i'm not in a relationship that I feel I am just existing... there are a lot of other reasons.. although having a special someone would be nice.. and help make things better, I don't need one to make me live, just want one to help inhance me.. Thanks..

There was a time in my life I thought I was fine. I just felt I had hollowed myself out giving all my substance to people who 'needed' me, but I just needed to get enough rest. Just needed to be able to sleep through the night once in a while and I would be just fine. After two years living with these feelings, trying all the bromides handed out by well meaning friends and practising all the thinga I know myself to return to balance I went to a doctor who did some blood tests and diagnosed severe depression caused by a chemical inbalance. I was on medication for a month, did three sessions with a good psychiatrist and have never hit those depths again.

I am not suggesteng that this is what is going on for you, just showing that it is sometimes a good idea to eliminate possibilities to solve a problem

Although it is wonderful to be part of a couple, there is nothing wrong with enjoying life as a single person. expend some of this wonderful love on yourself and take care of you.

Hi Daniel Living life to the full my friend is more than having a partner with us. We need to be happy with who we are, with what we do, and ourselves before we can look for that special someone out there.
You sound like you are suffering from depression, its not the first time I've seen you post so negatively. If you are not finding yourself a soulmate or a girlfriend, it could be because she is seeing this side of you. Take yourself off to a doctor, take some time out from all this online stuff,
I know people will say, "stay here Daniel, we are your friends" and they will do so with the best intentions, but sometimes this is what suffocates us, you need time to re-coup, to breath,
take up a new hobby, and breath a lot of fresh air.
Good luck to you my friend.





Daniel, I would take the best advice that I read and it is from BUSTER123













big time!

Hey Daniel:

I haven't been on CS for long at all, but in this short time, I sure can spot the genuing people from the phony ones, and you are a very sincere person, you know that song " EVERYBODY HURTS SOME TIME"

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Is it this one?

Everybody Hurts Sometime

(Roger Taylor)

Everybody hurts sometime - you know it
(you know it)
And everybody loves sometime - don't be afraid to show it
If you don't get a little hurt sometime
If you don't dig a little dirt sometime
You ain't living at all
Love and affection - is the sweetest thing
But when love turns sour - it ain't a sin
It's a bitter pill but it turns to bitter - sweet - within
And it's on any street - everybody hurts
Sometime

Happiness is a young mans dream
But it don't come easy - know what I mean?
Gotta chase it down the street
Right to the last scene
Run down that illusion
Try to live your dream

Cos everybody hurts sometime - you know it
And everybody loves sometime - don't be afraid to show it
And if you don't get a little hurt sometimes
If you don't dig a little dirt sometimes
You ain't living at all

I will bajanblue.. I intend for this new year to be the best one I ever had.. and I am going to focus all of my energy into making it that way.. Thank you for your kind words..

Thank you.. I don't really need a doctor.. I do know what I have to do though, and I intend to do it... go back and read Jaywill's post, it makes a lot of sense to me.. thank you though..

Thanks Conrad... much appreciated..

No problem Daniel.. I see myself in your situation and Im helping myself to get over it.

God bless u

God bless you too ImTan... we all have our moments don't we..

most of the time... especially if one is very emotional and a feeling person...

haaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy....... but anyways, there's always sunshine after the rain, brighter than yesterday.

just hold on.. me and you ( maybe few more out there )

Trust me.. I may be down sometimes, but I always get back up.. and I still hold on to hope.. no matter how dark the skies may look.. there ia always a rainbow after the storm.. You are a sweet lady Tan, thank you for your compassion...

Hey Daniel, you could always go on the same singles cruise I'm going on in July.

How moving

And what singles cruise is that?