Skeptikos
Greenville, South Carolina USA
Posted: Feb 18, 2008, 3:22 AM CST
Daniel, I feel your pain. I've lived alone and haven't had sex for four years. I'm reclusive. I avoid social situations. I'm not ugly, but on the rare occasion that I'm in a publicly loose forum, I have few women talking to me or giving me a second look, despite the fact that I'm friendly and at least average-looking. I'm 58 and running out of time. You still have plenty of time.
Smile at people and look them in the eye. Be spontaneous and don't worrry about saying the wrong thing.
Don't let yourself get to my age and feel like you've ruined your life. Hang in there, my friend.