Forums Nav

Forums

Dating Forums Home » Dating & Relating » how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?
Thread:

how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

Category:
Dating & Relating
page: 1 2 3 4 of 4
  • post a new thread
  • post a new poll
  • post a new thread

how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

England dating
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:14 PM CST
more than two would make me think..



A. they leap to fast too soon.. and make a mistakes.

or

B. People are seeing what I haven't yet.
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
ontario personals
starliteisbrite
The planet earth....:), Ontario Canada
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:18 PM CST
Repeat marriage is an American thing...............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
England dating
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:19 PM CST
starliteisbrite wrote:
Repeat marriage is an American thing...............


hahaha

(I love your eye!)


giggle wave
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
free online dating
fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:22 PM CST
admittedly I;m trying to find logic and sense in what she told me ... for the obvious reasonsdevil

yet something about how she spoke and how her body and eyes reacted when she spoke it was like 2 separate speakers speaking at once.

maybe she just doesn't do mornings? maybe all the coffee was getting to her?





maybe I was thinking with one head too many?
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
ontario personals
starliteisbrite
The planet earth....:), Ontario Canada
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:25 PM CST
fireliter wrote:
admittedly I;m trying to find logic and sense in what she told me ... for the obvious reasons

yet something about how she spoke and how her body and eyes reacted when she spoke it was like 2 separate speakers speaking at once.

maybe she just doesn't do mornings? maybe all the coffee was getting to her?maybe I was thinking with one head too many?


Maybe has far to many answers
...most better left unsaid....tee-hee
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
illinois dating
Imasquirly1
Pontoon Beach, Illinois USA
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:29 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
more than two would make me think..
A. they leap to fast too soon.. and make a mistakes.

or

B. People are seeing what I haven't yet.


in my case...it is option A..I jumped in way too fast on mine..
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
England dating
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:31 PM CST
Imasquirly1 wrote:
in my case...it is option A..I jumped in way too fast on mine..


Me too.. I was a complete IDIOT... I had every chance (and warning sign) NOT to...

and still did it anyway..

we live and learn tho eh?

haha

teddy bear wave
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
ontario dating
Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:40 PM CST
fireliter wrote:
OK I've met some with as many as 6 and as few as one.

Can I be classified as skeptical because f i think the words "I love you " from them are suspect?



In my case I have very poor judgement when it comes to matters of the heart...I have only been married once and refuse to do it again because of this...That will be my last divorce!!!!!!!


wine
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Jan 19, 2008, 12:43 PM CST
It would surely depend on how much money he had left...giggle grin
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
New Hampshire dating
starr
Somersworth, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 5:28 AM CST
Two thoughts:
Could it be that human beings aren't wired for "one marriage one time in a lifetime" and that we are really creatures of serial monogamy
OR
could it be that the "institution" of marriage is a flawed concept

How about trying just really loving another person? Marriage doesn't protect anyone; we can see that by all the hurt people; men, women and children. Perhaps it is made way too easy to say "I do"?

Just my 2 centsdunno
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



joanie04984
North Woods, Maine USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 5:34 AM CST
arabella wrote:
Yep, I'm one of those evil divorcees

Four times

I'd keep clear of me, if I were ya'll


This was me then....

Still is me but a different username.

I'm still evil and I eat men for breakfast devil

Marriage is just not my cup of tea grin
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Dublin singles
Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 5:44 AM CST
Well if they are a muslim man they can marry up to four wives at one time...If he wished to divorce them its as easy as repeating I divorce you three times.....

I like to take my time to get to know someone really well before even getting close to them..perhaps I am too cautious but a hurt heart heals slowly...

I think in general terms people do commit too readily too earlier on and don't stick with things when the boat rocks.
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Alaska singles
X5323601
Fairbanks, Alaska USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 5:57 AM CST
0 drinking
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Oklahoma matchmaking
muppetkiller
Snyder, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:07 PM CST
Yikes! I was married once. It's my decision to decline all offers.

I have no reason for marriage. I prefer to be single. No kids, what's the point?

One marriage, one kid, one divorce, I'm done. Is there any other point?
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
south dakota singles
dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:28 PM CST
fireliter wrote:
its not i doubrbt that they belive in love..its more od a intelligence thing

being able to learn from one mistakes... being the primary concern for me.

not too mention the other possiblereason one would willing commit so mant times to marriage...once twice, threee times but come on folks where is the line to be drawn...that these folks are not marrying for love?




thumbs up I would certainly be suspect.



Personally, I've only been married 5 times. Is that too many for you? heart wings heart beating lips uh oh!







J/K
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Florida singles
classicrockgirl
Florida, Florida USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:34 PM CST
Don't think I would want to be with someone who was divorced more then 2x. One guy I was talking to was married and divorced 6x!!! Not a very good track record.
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



chimike
Chicago, Illinois USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 10:49 PM CST
Been divorced twice, two different lifetimes....last one was 12 years ago....if someone wanted to hold that against me, cest la vie (or whatever the French say).
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



loves2steppin
Concord, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 11:04 PM CST
The first marriage was for 28 LONG years.....and the second lasted 3 months.....I should have listened to my sister that day in September and drove right past that church and out to the beach.....hopefully we learn from our mistakes. There is someone important in my life right now and we are taking things slow. Maybe one day I will get to share his life every day, who knows? If not.....its not meant to be and I can take that. Would prefer to just live with him anyway.
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 11:20 PM CST
drinking as a prospective mate: quite a lot
as a friend, not so muchwine
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Arizona singles
HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 11:47 PM CST
I wonder how many people that are critical of those married more than once feel about all the ones they have "shacked up" with? devil

sigh At least is shows they have the balls to make a commitment, at least more so than a shack job or one of the "overnighters"... rolling on the floor laughing
Back to top
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
page: 1 2 3 4 of 4
  • post a new thread
  • post a new poll
  • post a new thread

Report this thread if it breaks rules, is offensive, or contains fighting. Staff does not know about forum abuse (and cannot do anything about it), unless you tell us about it. If this thread is offensive, please click here to report it »

If site dates and times do not show correctly, you can fix this by editing your timezone
Click here to edit your timezone »