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how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

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how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Apr 15, 2008, 10:31 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
I wonder how many people that are critical of those married more than once feel about all the ones they have "shacked up" with?

At least is shows they have the balls to make a commitment, at least more so than a shack job or one of the "overnighters"...


DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!! Nearly 24 hours and no comments.. Must have touched home with someone..rolling on the floor laughing
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Apr 15, 2008, 10:37 AM CST
Never been Married...and Yes I am getting Married this yearsmitten
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joanie04984
North Woods, Maine USA
Posted: Apr 15, 2008, 11:02 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!! Nearly 24 hours and no comments.. Must have touched home with someone..


Yeah...

At least we tried dunno

I really do believe that marriage is the hardest kind of relationship. It takes work from both partners.

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Apr 15, 2008, 10:45 PM CST
joanie04984 wrote:
Yeah...

At least we tried

I really do believe that marriage is the hardest kind of relationship. It takes work from both partners.


Well said....hug
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 16, 2008, 2:11 AM CST
constanza wrote:
Many divorces tells me you are seeking something outside of yourself, but really the answer is within, and somehow you have not figured it out yet; never marrried - afraid to take a chance, pessimistic, selfish maybe, or perhaps just clueless with no real agenda or sense of direction, bad luck? The possibilities are numerous.


Hiya Constanza.. I agree.. wave hope u will be back by the way.. crying hug

I agree, I wouldn't necessarily judge someone, because people can get stuck in 'relationship' patterns, and unless and until they become aware of this, they will continue to subconciously 'seek out' that type of person..

One clear example of this would be someone who is Co-dependant. Co-dependants often attract emotionally distant partners (sometimes to the extent of abusive) and can only (until aware) become attracted to people who are not readily available... 'nice' guys they would perpetually find unstimulating and 'boring'... this leads them into all kinds of difficult situations until they see what the origins of the issues are

cheers
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