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feeling a little frisky today

You really have a way to lately.

It's not nice to point out Real or Imagined Faults of Friends out in Public.
Don't forget,if you point a Finger at someone,four of them are pointing back at you!

so many words for that quote, so few emoticons........where's the dam cat emoticon???

Yeah.. you wouldn't be the great guy you are if you wasn't...

LMAO.....there is no one finger salute emoticon!!

Love, lust?

At the moment, lust would suffice..

Now, where is that 22 year old redhead, big boobs, absolutely beautiful & filthy rich?

Oh, I forgot, she would also have to be very dumb..

well..if it's a woman, she already meets the last criteria!! Protection from thrown rocks...LOL





Oh! I kill me!!!

I know.............

hmmmmmpffff

Now,that is the 60-Dollar Question!

if I were a drunkard I'd say don't mess with my Daniel,

but I'm no drunk and he's not mine but all the same... be nice to him... as far as I know he hasn't bitten anyone,

come on... spring is here.... (well... almost)

ermm .. I think i have spoken to Daniel enough in the last 2 months and the no. of women on CS , if he were falling in love too easily .. there would be too little time to complaint.

On a serious note, we all have our little problems ( best known to us ). If someone asks for help i guess great if we can. But otherwise honoring them with a thread to dissect ( i guess this is like that ) their issues , well is uncalled for.

By the way .. there are women who do fall in love over just few days and drive men insane ( the other side of the coin )

Some people have fantastic memories.

talking to me?

No I would have used the quote feature if I was.

actually he has bitten
but havent we all?
so no biggie

but some do tire and oops-type out loud
i have to realy hold back sometimes
the level of codependence that has become the atmosphere lately
-last 4 months-ish
has gotten really absurd and a bit bizarre
this is my opinion

the lack of actual conversation or freedom to disagree is nearly extinct
and just like in real life, when you see people up close
going thru the same cycle for a long time
it is a bit frustrating

example-if one of your dearest friends kept dating gamblers and
kept asking you after each break up-what is wrong?
why is my life so hard-
wouldnt you eventually say something?

a friends risks a friendship sometimes by telling the truth.
thats what friends are for
not this constant we all love each other
and these 'families' springing up

its just not emotionally healthy. im sorry if some dont wanna hear that but read a book already-its not healthy-whole or intimate.
its false and hollow and thats why so many of us online
are constantly sad or 'rescuing' others. and these behaviors are what is exhibited to some degree when we interact in R/L,
which has caused our world to get smaller and so many here have hours on end to be here-but not notice our same patterns?
coooome on!

and by the way-the only rule that was broken by the OP
was mentioning a name in a thread title-

im not saying im the healthiest person in the world-i mean
im about to post a pic of my dog dressed in clothes-

but i do find it pretty easy to discern who is
emotionally mature and trustworthy and EVENHANDED about it
and the 'family' here is very exclusive-as in not inclusive.

many many members write me exactly what ive written here
but no one will post it-why not? people pleasing? fear of not being
liked by everyone? whats wrong w/ real conversation and interaction?
why do ppl care so much that everyone like them? even people in a box on your desk? theres acquaintances and theres friends-
we will only have a handful of real friends in a lifetime.
thats ok-and thats enough.

why is conversation seen as meanness around here?
and i think maybe someone who has been around a good while might have a bit more perspective than someone who hasnt-
when we are discussing someones personality patterns.
and thats square logic and shouldnt offend anyone-

please note ive said not a thing about daniel-
its not my job to fix anyone
im working on growing me and that is part of it-for me.(not fixing)
i do however think it may have been better emailed
but seeing EVERYONE jump to defend,
even when he said basically-'no need' and 'im ok' is no surprise.
the fact that ppl do it anyway-illustrates maybe a bit i have
mentioned here. our ned to 'defend' and 'rescue' is a great distraction from looking at anything...

these are my opinions.
so what?

Defending a friend isn't a need imo... it's human nature.. I know who I am, and what I stand for... so what if i choose to display my emotions at times.. yes I am a very sensitive man.. as far as what makes who I am.. yes I write poems and some of them seem like I am in love, but really the poems I write are no different then the one's you can pick up on a card at any store when a person wants to say something special to someone else..

I have been asked by other member to write poems for them for someone they care about, and felt honored that they thought enough about what I write to ask me... When the time is right and I do decide to give my love to someone, i will.. however it may seem as for appearences... is not how it is... I know what is in my heart, and in my mind.. nobody knows that better than I do, no matter how it looks from one from the outside looking in..

This is not intended to offend you in particular mindful or anybody else for that matter... as you know I respect you mindful.. but I am who I am and I know me better than anybody else... And if I was in love I would be the first to know.. also if I choose to share it then that is also my decision...