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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

I'm glad that wasn't a poll question~

Sometimes it takes years to figure out which category people fall into...

yeh...

Sometimes you never figure it out.

True Dave.........True~

Very nice Trudy

so what does a person do?

If I had that answer, I wouldn't be here....

I don't know Trudy I'm still trying to work it out myself

Just figure out what you learned from the experience or what you needed to learn If you can't do that, then just know that there was a reason that everything happened the way it did, even though you don't know why.

yeh im learning the hard way sometimes...the reason...i usually know to some extent but other times...im in outfield with no glove...

Aren't we all, BEB?! When it comes to love, i'm clueless....

Same here

So beautiful and so right

Yes thats excellent ... beautiful and bright .... believe me ... Ive learnt the many and hard ways ... the easy ones too ...

Beautiful and bright .. sometimes its so beautifull .. its as brillent as in one gigantic flash .... then gone ... some never experience this flash ... most are just beautiful ....

this great flash is like a star that bursts into the heavens ... brighter than suns ..... then in its shortness it vanishes .... gone ....


for all is beauty .... most is beautifull .....



there is something else too ... dont know which catagory it would fall into or it has it own category .... its called DUTY or LOVE ...

for which is the greater .... to hold stars and life always ....

will one regret it .... always questions and what if ... r others more than themselves ... for what is a heart .... or within a heart ...

or does the wind always whisper its calling ....

And sometimes, it can be figured out in seconds..

THEWALL2.......is a keeper.

maybe people just think to hard and make it complicated when it was simple to begin with...