Posted: Jul 11, 2008, 11:58 AM CST
Claayer wrote:Alex.. I tell you what would help us a lot here.. If you used the emoticons.. the smiley faces etc.. They help us put across how we mean something to sound.. how we mean it to come across. So if it's meant to be funny.. we can SHOW that.
Otherwise sometimes it's very hard to tell what anyone means if there is only text words, no laughing 'haha' 'lol' and no use of little faces... it can lead to a lot of misunderstanding.
Might be worth a go..
yes you are right
it will help a lot
but ..... what about me?
as a dating site, i hope t find some one spoecal to me
i am looking for some one that is able to see the good in every circumstance
i am looking for some one able to build brigges of comunications
when i dont use the emoticons, i know that i make harder to get what i say, but i make it easier for me to screen the ones i am interested
sometims, i get a question to explain myself, it sows to me, the she instead starting an atack, will prefer to undertand what i am saying
other times, i get a private mail asking me of what i mean in the post
another person that consider to be more important comunication than argueing
it might not be the nicest post for others, but is a good option for me
there aref ew people that i correspond here, most of them i dont belive we will cros the line from pen pals to real life riends
with others we are geting to now them better
some i would love to know them in person, althught we both know we are not for each other in a romantic way, but we are buildng a friendship
i preffer to me only one person that is able to say
"i think tis way and this are my reazons, ... this is why i belive you are wrong...."
than aclually have an harem of playboy girls yelling "i disagree"
did i succed to express myself?