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I have to admit I am the same...BUT I am not possessive and if I think he wants to be with someone else...I will just walk!!!!!!!

I agree Claire!

I love my man to get a little possessive when other men look at me, and put his arm around me, just to show I am his!

Makes me feel sort of protected!

I'd be far more upset if he didn't give a TOSS what was happening.

Same...

There have been times when I might have felt jealous, but never possessive.

Hi Claayer what happened with the name change have you entered the C.S. witness protection programme I’ve heard rumours of it

I can honestly say there is not one jealous bone in my body. I feel jealousy is a wasted emotion. Here is the bottom line. I don't want to be where I'm not wanted(stay by myself most of the time). Either you want me..or you dont! I am neither possessive nor am I jealous!

Nope!! I'm well and truely done investing anymore of my emotional energy on that one!!

Ssshhsh.. yeah that's what happened.

I tatoo my name on her butt. A J on one side and an E on the other so it spells JOE.Also put in very tiny letters-Property of:,Owened and operated by: Just kidding.

Dont worry babe your secrets safe with me I wont tell anyone that you used to be Eurpho mums the word

I know the feeling. I would tell him to do the walking, kinda hard for me to walk when i'm in the middle of my drink.

ARGHH!



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I am not a jealous person at all. Over the span of my last real relationship, I was always trusting, never questioned anything. I didn't mind her hanging out with her friends at all. They seemed like nice people. I guess she thought so too, she cheated on me with one of them! Then left me for him.

Anyway, after all that, I found myself being a more jealous person with the women I dated. I took a time-out from relationships and got my head right, and am back to my usual self. A non-jealous, non-possessive kinda guy.

Ahh.. just take it with you... I would.

True...Gotta finish the drink....

Ya see arent you so glad that you have me to confide in!

You know it's bad when he smiles after he sees a man drop you off home or when he says " you can be with another man, just not on my bed!"

Oh yeah, i left shortly after that.

Jealousy needs to get it’s due time and credit, the same as any other emotion. It’s how it’s handled really that’s more important.

I think it’s important that people find a good match in the first place. If I am someone who wants to spend 23 hours a day with my partner, it would be a bit senseless for me to engage in a relationship with someone who wants to work long hours, socialize with friends everyday, and have a “guys night out” twice a week. And vice-versa. Finding that compatibility in the first place cuts down on a lot of the jealousy issues.

Some partners have a low trust threshold from being hurt in the past. If we really love our partner, sometimes we have to submit to a bit of possessiveness for a while until they understand, through time and experience, that we aren’t leaving them for someone else.
It’s not a task we should be taking on with every single person we date, but once we’ve found “the one”, if we really love them and want it to work, we’re usually willing to invest more.

Not if he bought it!