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Hey Gilly,

If I could change anything from when I was 16 it would be hmmmmmmm lemme see, going out to work???

I would not change a thing.My life has not been roses all the way, But I learned a lot of it and made me the person that I am today :)

PART 2

1. who was uncle bill ? and what was it like living in his house ?

2. did you prefer living with him than your parents ?

3. i wished i lived with my favourite aunty who i use to sell for in a street market..because of the tyope of creative outgoing woman she was ..that was into making money but never got the support she needed from the family or else she would have become a succesfull woman !



4. how important was family support for you in the first half of your life ?..and how did you get on with your family ?

5. did you use to idolise any famous people and base your lifestyle of fashon upon them ?

i use to idolise people like sydney poiter and bill cosby the black american actors ..that was until people like RICHARD PRYOR AND EDDIE MURPHY CAME ALONG !



and showed me that you did;nt have to be very respectable and well spoken to become a well know and well respectable succesfull black man



6. what type have people have you found that you can really relate to about your life and the things that happened or should have happened in your life ?



i prefer that don't try and prove to you how respectable they are !



7 . what happened to your daugther then ..how did she get kidnapped ?

END OF PART 2

My childhood wasn't really a childhood. My mother and my step father were addicted to meth. People from the outside looking in thought we had a perfect little family, for a while... Then it all got out of control. I raised my little brother who had many health problems as a child (he now does meth with my mother). So I moved out at 16 and started my "life". My real father is a VERY bad man, I don't see him anymore. My mother and brother and I talk MAYBE once a year and that's because I am trying to be nice, but I don't intend to talk to them any further.

No favorite members of the family, except for my dog, Buddy.

I would have also liked to stay single a bit more and focus on ME, figuring out who I am and what I want to do with my life. Instead I was constantly in a relationship and taking care of someone. But I have been working on myself for a while and AM OH SO READY for a relationship.

I'd live in many more countries and learn their language

are you talking to me ?

i wouldnt have gotten married at 16

OK

Yeah you asked me questions and I quoted you and replied back

ok

I would let the people that have crossed my path in life know that I loved them and drop the pride routine. When they are gone, it is too late.

hi again !

PART 3

1. whats your daughter like mindful ? ..and how do you get on with her ?

i've got a son that i get on well with ( when i'm not living with him ) !



he's just come round ...taken some money of me... and gone off again !!!

I LIKE THAT !..BECAUSE HE'S NOT ON MY WAVELENGTH ! ..HE'S ON HIS OWN WAVELENGTH !!!!



sometimes loving people and living with people are two completely different things ( don't matter how much you want it to work out )! don't get me wrong we love each other dearly ...but not suited to live togther !



2.it sounds like you get on well with your 15 year old



3. what country were you brought up in then ?

4. did you get to travel much ..and seen most of the places you wanted to see ?



END OF PART 3

gilly i appreciate your attention and interest

i thot id said plenty

its hard to share on forums sometimes
seems one can be ridiculed repeatedly for mentioning mowing or not mowing their yard

so to share that ive had any life or what some may see as success is just not worth sharing in the current climate

seems people mostly look at what others say to pick it apart and bang them on the head with it later
and then im accused after speaking out about it of playing the victim

i dont understand it but i know you know what i mean

and we shall remain until we are decided to leave amen?

anyway i was a musician all my life over 20 yrs
union the whole bit
yes ive traveled alot
constantly for many years in fact
my oldest son is doing what i did
thats cool to see-he is 29 and quite amazingly successful

uncle bill is a slang for AA-a place i hang out for almost 16 yrs now-and my family was weird and i was on my own at 14

so thats a bit for now
i guess youll see this soon-ish

best to ya

ps i like real conversation too

NOTHING.........


all of my experiences, pain, joy, love, and hurt have had a part in making me the man I am. I am compleaty happy with who I am so if I made any changes they would change the me I know and I wouldn't do that even if it was possible. there are some things I have learned had lessons from but I don't regret them,


live life to its fullest every day, experience all that you can in life, and when you come to the end of the road have no regrets, or wishes of things you have not done.

To be a better person to not make the mistakes that I've made in my life, to be kinder and more loving, to always be helpful and to live life as a truly whole and complete person.

At 16 we moved to Pennsauken NJ, I wished I asked this lady named Kelly out.I was16 she was14.Ihad a big crush on her, sometimes I wonder whatever happen to her. I'm 51 now.

I would have had good parents,, not get me put in a foster home at 11.

2. I would have stopped after the first 2 children that I had,

Our life experiances make us who we are. Good & Bad, I wouldn't change a thing even if it were possible.