have you or would you withhold sex ?

fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:53 AM CST

because of a disagreement, actions or difference of opinion when in a relationship?

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:55 AM CST

not so much...i like it too much

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girlnextdormouse
Marietta, Ohio USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:56 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

because of a disagreement, actions or difference of opinion when in a relationship?

Well, I don't think I would specifically withhold sex as some sort of "punishment" or "pay back", but I think it would be difficult to get "in the mood" if we were arguing.

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dexnij_de_amor
Bkk, Amphoe Bang Kapi Thailand

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:57 AM CST

no.... the idea of sex melts the disagreement or any differences I have with my bf.

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Sparky55
Prattville, Alabama USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:58 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

because of a disagreement, actions or difference of opinion when in a relationship?

I' don't think I have but I would not start down the path if in the middle of a heated disagreement.

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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:58 AM CST

girlnextdormouse wrote:

Well, I don't think I would specifically withhold sex as some sort of "punishment" or "pay back", but I think it would be difficult to get "in the mood" if we were arguing.

so you go to bed upset/mad do you wake up feeling the same?

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Slenderblonde
Waterford, Waterford Ireland

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 10:59 AM CST

Read a report recently about a small village in Eastern Europe where the women decided to withold sex until the drainage/sewage system was completed, having waited ten years thus far.

The project was completed in record time!!!

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girlnextdormouse
Marietta, Ohio USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:01 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

so you go to bed upset/mad do you wake up feeling the same?

I'd try not to go to bed mad at someone.
No reason why most things can't be worked out by bedtime.
My relationships don't normally include a lot of argument though. Who needs the drama?

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j_goose
northfield, Ohio USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:03 AM CST

What's sex?

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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:04 AM CST

I heard 2 sides to this question...
one being, one has nothing to do with the other...

the other being withholding sex intensifies the eventual make up sex

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lover65
Vero Beach, Florida USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:12 AM CST

I need sex all the time why would I withhold?

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:18 AM CST

wouldn't withhold- but I might not pay her!

Hell no!

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:20 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

because of a disagreement, actions or difference of opinion when in a relationship?

Nope, love sex too much

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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 11:25 AM CST

Yes I would until my hand apologizes

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sweet1of2
Charleston USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:17 PM CST

No I never have withheld like that.
I must be the world's BIGGEST pushover when it comes to that: my exhusband and I divorced 4 years ago and we never STOPPED having sex together on a regular basis even DURING the divorce. Now we live across the street from each other and still get together for sex about 3 times a week.

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jbibiza
Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:26 PM CST

Why cut off your nose to spite your face???

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:29 PM CST

fireliter wrote:

because of a disagreement, actions or difference of opinion when in a relationship?

sure!

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:29 PM CST

sweet1of2 wrote:

No I never have withheld like that.
I must be the world's BIGGEST pushover when it comes to that: my exhusband and I divorced 4 years ago and we never STOPPED having sex together on a regular basis even DURING the divorce. Now we live across the street from each other and still get together for sex about 3 times a week.

this story makes me so sad
life would be so great if good sex was all it took
for a relationship to make it...

man-life is hard *whine*

anyway i neednt read every post to respnd w/ a resounding hell no

and hi fireliter
always nice to see you

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BeautifulEri
Guadalajara, Jalisco Mexico

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:31 PM CST

That's really one of the things that ruin relationships, why punish someone with NO SEX, like WE didn't liked it?? Pretty silly....no better way to get over something than great sex...

JMO

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Fallenangel74
southern, British Columbia Canada

Posted: Feb 5, 2008, 12:32 PM CST

I couldn't even think of it when i am pissed off. Dare ya to even come near it!

mildly irritated...wouldn't want to talk to me tomorrow.

Other than that it's all good.

Too long with out it though? Can make for really uptightness(frustration...lol)

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