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if you're dating someone who you know has cheated on their last girlfriend is it fair to think he would cheat on you to? like if you're going for a month or so and he is going out of town with his friends should you worry that he'll cheat or give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him. also do you bring it up with him?

COULD BE OR COULDN'T BE..

but who the hell that is going to cheat such a pretty ,angel looking girl like you after seeing this innocent smile

Short answer, yep, once and for always.

Let him go and don't worry about it. If he's going to, he's going to, whether he goes out of town or not. Worrying your pretty little head about it ain't gonna change him.

I think you title answers your question.

oow that's against according to the god's sayings pal. then what's the meaning of confession os sins

If someone cheats its obvious that the person isnt happy in that relationship..
To cheat instead of ending it first shows immaturity, lack of character,
Low moral fibre & a deceptive mind....

Why would you wanna be with someone like that????

Get out while you still got the glow !!!

Cheaters are people who fundamentally lack a sense of self control when faced with temptation.
Whereas most of us would know better or feel a sense of wrong in advance, they have to run into the moment to feel alive. Their hasty actions will catch up with them but not until they have brought a few good people down in the process. It is rare that they get this after one spin... so yes, a cheater is typically a cheater to repeat.

86.569483% correct

I think the possibility is definitely there...unfortunately it is a behaviour that he has justified previously to himself as acceptable so I think it is worth having a conversation about....not confrontational just explaining your concerns.... you have become his lover in knowing his past behaviour so you now have to accept this is a bridge of trust you have to find, if you can't then cut him lose.

ow..well said pretty lady

I think thats just a stereo typical remark.
..All being make mistakes
and not all are repeated.
...Life is trial and error and if change is wanted,change can happen,
everything in life is about choice
...so the option is there.

I agree

Besides that, you can anticipate to some extent how capable he is of loyalty by observing him in general terms of behavior in other areas.

People make mistakes. Should they be branded for life ?

Great viewpoint on this subject

Not mention, a total lack of respect for the person being cheated on..and a lack of self respect by the cheater him/her self.

If someone doesn't repect themselves, they will likely respect someone else.

Shelia

**oops...likely not to respect...having a blonde day

Your Data is inaccurate , I've been married 3 times, cheated on my first two wives because they were weird or abusive and I was just. attempting to fill a void.
Was married to my third wife for 14 years and never cheated, and I had a lot of great offers.
If a guy does cheat there is something lacking in the relationship and you'd better find out what it is quick.
But if he is truely in love with you nothing can pull him away .

Chaz

Depends on how many times he has done it in the past, was it the first time or a pattern. If it is a pattern then he will likely do it again. Do you know the reasons why he cheated on his last girlfriend, could be he was just not happy and did not know how to end it.

yeh for the most part I think once a cheater always a cheater...I've seen it happen more then not. its sad, but that definition was brought about for a reason..as far as the rest of your questions, I'm not sure what I would do or say...hmm just my thoughts.

have a good day stargazer...

Absolutely and as someone have mention before .... People who are in unhappy relationships are tend to cheat. (If so .... explain to them that it is time to GO)