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Same difference in your case, JB.

No, we are all needy, too high maintenance, shoe loving, sports hating, chick flick loving loonatics!

But isn't that why you love us?

Well that and some of us give good head, but that's a whole different topic!

There are decent women out there. Really, there are, I promise. Some of them are like Angels walking the Earth, the kind that Heaven sends, the kind that will love you and be your best friend. They are like a song written by the hand of God. They can fly because they take themselves lightly.

Still, finding your one true love can seem like looking for something that does not exist. This is because love is less about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's less about how much love you have at first sight, and more about how much love you can build to the end.

If you want to bring out the best in a woman, you have to be all man for her. I don't mean alpha male, nor the macho stereotype. Being a man is about personal power. This is a power that comes from within rather than, having power over someone.

Women are attracted to confidence. Honesty is one of the surest signs of confidence. You must be honest with yourself, true to yourself. Be in control of your own state at all times. This is how to be in control without being controlling.

Love women. Believe in women. Let them fascinate you. Adore everything that defines them as women. If your greatest pleasure is pleasing her, if you believe that and feel good to say it, you are on the right track. If not, then it is time to be honest with yourself about what your true motivations are.

You must have your own identity, and you cannot be defined by women. You must not need women. You must want them. You must understand that they need to be wanted. You must be decisive. You must know what you want. If you don't know what you want, you probably will not get it. You will most likely end up with something you don't want.

Be in control of yourself. Rely on yourself. Accept that everything that happens to you is your own doing. Be personally powerful. Do not try to be personally powerful. Do not act personally powerful. BE personally powerful. Be genuine. Command respect. Know exactly what you want, and you will have it.

well said Luscious

Wow diogenes,
That was....
impressive
to say the least.
Not sure how other women will respond to those words, but I personally think you hit several nails on the head.

NO.. there are no decent women left out there!!!

I have them all locked in my basement... making them into indecent women!!

Would that be indecently decent... or decently indescent?

Hey Ambrose, good weekend?

diogenes
Bro... stop it before you make me cry to!

What kind if "dim-witted'
..biased question is that???
forget i asked
...simple is as simple does...*sigh*

I have a few suggestions for you; look at their profile really well and ask some questions; how old is she? if she's never been married and is over 30 no kids, no education, no career it's a lil on the iffy side friend. JMO,

also if she has too many pretty pictures in various poses that would make me question her decency, seriously,....don't laugh...ok?


also dames who are here for the forums only yet you keep on seeing pictures coming and going ...what for...?

Heck.............
I would settle for an indecent woman for a few weeks!

I think I love you!

same questions different day


all i will say is .........Good luck!

BRAVO,BRAVO,MY FRIEND!!!! You are truly a DECENT MAN!

Im glad someone got a laugh.

I am decent. I got my clothes.

Nope, I got the last one

Wouldn't it be nice to blame it on a city or a state or even a nation? You can, of course.

But in reality, it comes down to people. People making bad decisions, foolish choices.

It may be too soon for you to see - but your wife actually did you a favor. She isn't the kind of woman you want raising your kids if she would expose them to the assh@le who hurt one of them. And honey, she would have hurt you again in a year, two years, five years.

I am considering sending my ex's girlfriend a thank you note. She dragged him away from me and by doing so freed me.

Hugs and happy thoughts. You have the kids and people who care.