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What does anyone else think of people who are "shopping" for a new relationship while still "living, involved, or WHATEVER" with another person?!?!
Then they innocently fail to mention that fact until after meeting and becoming involved. NOT FAIR....BIG TIME Jackass!

you are soooo right. No more need to be said!

i think its their illness and im glad to find out early.

and then i dont think about them anymore...

Yes. They are creeps to the tenth degree!

But isn't what you are talking about the same as people who cheat on their partners?

I've never understood that. Why hang onto what obviously isn't working for you? They refuse to break up and instead have another person on the side.

The lying and sneaking must be exhausting!

Yes, some women are this way, can't mow their own lawn but always admire the neighbors...

I absolutely hate desperate men who contact me promising me love and devotion when i have a man in my pics!!!!!!


If they FIRST asked if he was just a cousin or neighbour, maybe i'd understand where they were coming from, other than that.....they ooze DESPERATION!!!




They are realllly starting to get to me....what's with that??!! That hard to go through a profile first???

Women lie an their profiles!!

on............

Lusious...could it be that when they see a woman with a man....on a dating site, (right or wrong) assume you are looking for something let's say on the side?? I think it is confusing that there are so many attached people on this, a dating site!

Not judging, just saying that it seems absurd that a woman post a picture of herself and a man on a site that is for meeting people for dates and such, then they get annoyed that men contact them!!

........................................JMO, of course............................

So glad to hear someone finally agree with what I have always thought! My ex while we were living together and trying to work on getting remarried went to several dating sites including this one and ended up breaking up with me because he met another woman on a site...didn't bother to tell me until about an hour before she called our house.

Won't go through the 'site is for more reasons than meeting singles( forums)' speech with you because i know you already know how that goes.

Furthermore, i met him here and as we are asked for testimonials ( not asked to leave after we do) .....mine is expressed in my pictures of 'us'.

I truly believe that an adult should be an adult and end any relationship before starting anew. Cheating is the worst betrayal. They loved each other at one time...show that person enough respect to end things before starting something new.

*****Won't go through the 'site is for more reasons than meeting singles( forums)' speech with you because i know you already know how that goes.

Furthermore, i met him here and as we are asked for testimonials ( not asked to leave after we do) .....mine is expressed in my pictures of 'us'.









again...I'm not saying that "attached" people shouldn't be on here! I'm just saying it sends mixed signals to people who are looking!!

Ok, i get you.


To those people ( not you ship.) : When i do need an 'extra', i'll clearly state it on my profile in words....huge and legible. Let's stick to what we can read and lose the assumptions.

hi Chele!!

If there is honesty about the situation and there's trust on your part I don't see a problem.

just be glad your not there partner

agree 100% with you chele

I agree completely

Ship, it also sends the signal that the internet does work. We all have jobs, day to day lives, but we just don't seem to find who we are looking for. As for me, I did not find someone in a bar, in a church or in day to day work. I admit to having a girlfriend it is clearly stated in my profile ( or at least I think it is ??)

Is it not nice to know that the "internet thing" can work when other means such as friends and family do not?

As for me, I am still single, but attached. Will it work out? I hope so, but I am not married, but attached. I make no pretenses about it. I enjoy the discussions, the forums and the blogs. I do not get out an meet many people, I am in a foreign country where English is not standard. So I appreciate being able to talk and discuss here.