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Going through something similar to this in my life right now .... and no I would not knowingly put myself through it again unless I was already involved.


It messes with your mind to watch someone you care about pass away.

Your right its not a easy task at hand,
...but can I ask you then does one not allow themselves into ones life as a friend,be it male or female because the pain is so deep???
More often then not one who is passing would not want to become involved emotionally and physically,but love has many ties and can be drawn on many levels.
....what is is worth far more then what is not more....even if just for the moment.
JMO of course.

BTW how's Miss Kitty Doing????

I personally don't think I could go through this again. My sorrow is not for my ex as much as for my son who is watching his father die day by day ... he turns to me for answers and I don't have them. We cry together and look for the answers together.


Kitty is doing ok - he has an infected tooth that needs to come out when I get the money together.

i wouldnt care if they are ill or not il stay with her all the way cause il make her feel that she has someone for support for her

I wouldn't. I know it sounds horrible ,but it would be just awful to find someone and love someone and loose them.

but at least they have someone that they no that they love her/him before they go
i dont mean to sound mean or anything

to me make what ever time they have left make that very special so you can remember them by not what they have make if worth while

Death is the inevitable.
...Is not knowing and having time for preperations and good-byes far better then spurr of the moment?????

I think I would but then I think about it and I do not know because of course it would hurt to get to know someone and then watch them pass away.Then again to make their final months/yrs on this earth more happy I would because if you wanted to be with them then making them happy would make you happy.

I would begin a relationship with some that has a terminal illness. But if it developed during our relationship, it wouldn't change my feelings

yea i would do the same thing

Most surley I would.It makes me feel so good,sort of a high when I can do for others.I would gladl be there and hope if it happens to me I am not alone.I may lose them physically,but we would make memories I hold on to and better awhile then not at all.

If I was already involved, I would stay till the end. Before hand? I’m not sure. I have never been in a situation like that. The process of love has profound impacts on us.

And again
...not knowing
you love.you care,your there
...so does that change
ONLY if you know it does...UMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!

"ALL" relationships end!!! Be it through a split or a death, they all end..

But why not? Would you not appreciate being loved in final days? I would..

Ca bon HJF!!!... ..!!

Not if I didn't already know them and love them but if like on the first date this came out before I got to know them, No I wouldn't because that's too much pain to go through. I can't let myself get close to someone like that knowing that they will die soon, it's not fun or pretty to watch someone you really care for die. I could be their friend but to get in a relationship with them knowing this, no. It takes too much out of you to go through that. It is no fun to fall in love with someone just to watch them die. I could not do it. I could be a friend to them but nothing more than that.

Exactly!!

Not a bridge I care to cross until I get there.

I think that it might but if you really wanted to be with the person then you would see who they were always before they got really bad,but I think the big thing is to have a good support system too.Then that way your not the only one that the person is leaning on even if you are their gf/bf there are always other people.That way at some points you can get a break from seeing it all the time.Also when things happen then you also have people to lean on.I have never been this is situation, but I have lost my grandma to cancer so I know how it is.