well to me
and im sure youve all been waiting for me to chime in
this op is a fine example of if not juvenile behavior
behavior that is unattractive
reason? a new member judging and complaining?
sure they are free to do so, as anyone is at any time
but it is a red flag in life, for me,
to see that kind of arrogance and gall,
to arrive somewhere, a job, a class, a new friendship
and immediately beginning to judge, opine and attempt to regulate, or show the err of ways in that environment.
its just-i dunno-not good manners
and not attractive.
i dont know how the men feel, but as a woman,
the men, well people in general,
who show up that way here or in r/l
-i steer clear of.
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start good threads
that all sounds like good advice
the bottom line is general consensus
if a thread gets 30 pages of response
apparently plenty of people are ok with it
'hijacked' or not.