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I recently went on a date with a woman and her 2 childeren i thought the world of them boys and yet she told me what she wanted i was all this and more but when i got home i tried to call her as i promised and she never answered then the emails all ceased why what is she expecting what is it she wants mabe you know?
Sounds like gaming to me. If she is that inconstant and uncertain, it isn't a good sign. Encouraging someone and then leaving them hanging is either mindless or viscious. Which do you want?
Don't persist. If she contacts you, let your conscience be your guide. But Careful!