Posted: Feb 14, 2008, 3:29 PM CST
I've stayed out of this until now and as soon as I speak my piece, I'll be out of it
again. Having said that...
You really want to know what's wrong with us Americans?We're too damned nice! We've spent millions of dollars and souls baling out the rest of the world whether they wanted it or not. And then stood back and turned the other cheek when we were told how damned
stupid we were for lending a helping hand. That's
part of the problem!
But mostly - as a country - we lack humility and we lack the perspective that distance gives a person. And we're
proud! Case in point: (And I'm willing to bet that nearly everyone else here has had a similar experience!)
Several years ago, one of my brothers, who was living in Idaho at the time, was having some personal problems. Believe me, I was quick with unsolicited advice; I told him to do
this, this and this and asked why he
hadn't done this, that and/or the other. It was easy to offer the advice because I had the clarity of
perspective from a distance.
Six months later, when I found myself in almost exactly the same situation,
it was a whole different damned story! I didn't know
what the hell to do or where to turn and I
darn sure didn't want anyone else telling me how to solve my problems. After all, I'd handled everything that had come my way to that point and taken care of other people's problems as well, and I'd done it damn near my whole life! I was invincible!
...Except that I wasn't... I lacked humility and I lacked the perspective of distance. But I was still
strong. So rather than actually volunteer to
help, others stood at a distance and gave advice which I was in no mood to listen to. I eventually recovered on my own, but it took a heavy dose of humility and looking at myself through the eyes of others to make it happen.
I'm still quick to offer a helping hand - whether it's wanted or not - but I no longer believe myself to be invincible. And that makes me even stronger.
We Americans, as individuals, are deeply humble. But our government is not, although I believe we could remedy that with a few well placed butt kickings. Will we? Probably not until it's damn near
too late. But
we will get through this! And ya' know what? I still can't think of
anywhere I'd rather live or any place I'd rather swear allegiance to than the good ol'
USA!
Have fun ya'll - I've got a country to enjoy!