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Wow...bit of a lesson to be learned there.

I have to believe that "nice guys" don't finish last. Eventually they become the "last" first date of a wonderful woman. JMO.

Well said!!

No nice guys.
No bad boys.

Rather have a well balanced man.

This is simple, being a former bad boy as you say it I can answer this in one word " excitement " . I will explain, we all search for it but few can explain it. Well i can. Everyone seeks that excitement because it thrills us all. Having chased bad girls I know that is what drives you there.....My profile says reformed bad boy......here is the hardest thing in the world to find, a memeber of the opposite sex that charges us up with that excitement but also has a responsible side, thats as rare as a white bengal tiger..........signed white bengal

And then go back and take some more Feces!

Well,what the Hell,ain't they've got a Nice Guy to pick up the pieces until next time?????

Let's talk about it again in,say ten Years?

YOU ARE SO ON THE MONEY!!!

Excitement...You don't jump in a race car to go the speed limit, you don't strap on a parachute to go swimming, I don't want to get into a relationship to feel "safe" I can get that feeling by going to church on sunday morning. I want a man who knows how to make my motor run. (I am not talking in a sexual way, but that's always a big ole plus.)

Read what I am looking for in my profile, "someone who can sweep me off my feet, challenge my brain, and tickle my fancy!"

TheWALL2 is in da house,and if you ain't living on the EDGE sweetheart...........you're taking uo too much room.

You really want to know what I think about these so called bad boys? There would be none if the women would respect themselves as they should; even the worst of the worst would be tamed by love, propriety, and respect ofr their women; and for the rest of them and rest of the time that is why you would have the prostitutes, nothing new about that.

hey hey now...........no generalizing

not ALL women like the drama and being treated like sh@t tyvm

Women don't want nice guys........they want guys with a bit of a backbone....or,pardon my italian...........a set of CUYONES.

You can have all that and be a good, decent, self-respecting man.

At a restaurant,they want a man who will SLAM his beer bottle on the table,point the finger and say,''What are you doing OGLING my woman like that!''

If that is true, there is nothing wrong with being self-respecting; that does not make him a bad boy

NOT me cause I would probably turn to him and say..."STFU and sit down ya big OAF"!!!!!!!!!!

''Little man,you like staring at my woman,huh?''

SLAMS beer bottle on table.


''But SHE'S MINE!!!!!!!''

wow! this has gone on forever, show me a man who doesn't some how desire to be a tough guy, or a woman whom does not desire to be a princess, however , we are often sold on the package long before we know the contents, most guys, want a lady in the street and a freak in bed, yes? perhaps like a cologne or perfume does not smell the same on another it's a matter of chemistry , finding the right amounts of bad boy/girl that works in your life, i am not a bad boy (duh!) but yeah , at times i desire that image, oh well such is life, treat em' like crap bad boys , and i'll be there to build them back up:)

When we fall in love we want someone who has the power to break our hearts - but who doesn't

Thay way we are loving right up to the edge.

A bad boy offers excitement - He also offers been unfaithful and maybe lots of other stuff -

Having been a bad boy in my time - I've come to realise - and the pain it brought me , that a glint in the eye is good

It's just best keep there for one person.

It's all a journey : No pain - No gain

In a way : Better the saint - who's been a sinner - than a Saint who's never sinned.