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I know the women on here flower, mail, chitchat, gossip, start rumours with/about eachother etc...
and are not always very nice to eachother...


So I'm just wondering , without sounding naïve, do you guys as well???
Do you have more guys than women on your favourite list, if you have one...
Maybe keep in touch with more guys than women on here?

hI Oslo, funny i was thinking early when reading threads that you don't see the guy's being so spiteful and personal.

The guys on here seem pretty cool so far since I havent been on here long. So why do you women bicker so much? And I know it happens in real life all the time, seems like women like to fight with each other over minute things. So could anyone tell me why this happens?

I don't have a favorites list! I do think they should have items like a pitcher of beer that guys can send to say hi, though

I also never send frivolous messages. Call me weird...lol

You never seen a real fight in real betweeeeen men obviously

Generally we scratch in tandem and brake wind dear.It's a sport these days, i think its going to be a while before its televised but generally if you watch men long enough your see them scratching their groin and farting like a trooper.

Who says manners are dead, its not being rude anymore, its performance art.

No not really...

I came on cs to meet women but i have about two male friends but we dont talk much at all

oh hun i have seen plenty of fights, both men and women. I used to be a bartender. And when I was in the corporate world-thank God I am no longer a part of... the women used to be sooooo hatefule towards each other, young or old, white or black it didnt matter. I guess it just part of your all's genes.

I never thought you did...

Well observed!

SOME of the women on here are down right bitchy and malevolent in their gossiping...terribly small minded and perfidious.

Us men? No gossip as far as I know...none ever come my way. Too busy tryin' to make sense of it all!

Some people are predisposed to wallow in misery, others find solice in creating misery in others and revel in doing so.

Generally it is a female characteristic, as females perceive each other as threats.Men are generally too lackadaisical or just don't want to be involved.


Then again, it could be that their twisted maniacs with too much time on their hands

Me, i'd have a solution but its not pc, so i wont go down that line.

We just talk about how hot all the women on CS are. Leave the gossip to the girls.

Does get boring though.... the gossip bit, I mean...

You're breaking with the code here Oslo...the girlies ain't gonna be happy.

Do you think I care??

I only have a couple of guys on my favs list. The reason they are there, is because we share some very common interests.

As for gossip, what a waste. Is that really what you women spend your time doing??

Some seem to....

I have several female friends on here and only two male ones (Ones I would count as a friend!!) But I can honestly say, that it is the males whom give me the gossip and 'lo' down' on other memebrs! (They do in fact, sound just like my gay bro, a right pair of bitches! LMAO)

Sooo.... Not too sure what that divuldges??? Maybe my girly friends are too busy bitching about me behind my back to fill me in on the gossip!! LMAO Only teasing girlies, you know I loves ya!

How many have had the courage to reach out to a man? How many have ever tried to become "friends" with a man?

Yet I consistantly hear weomen say they want a two way street....

On a personal note, there is ONE woman that reached out to me. We chat on IM, we have spoken on the phone and she wants to come to AZ on vacation. Will it end up in a "relationship"? I have no clue, neither does she. Neither of us have any expectations of the other. What we both know is, each of us has made a good friend..