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Arizona personals
HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 6:37 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
How many have had the courage to reach out to a man? How many have ever tried to become "friends" with a man?

Yet I consistantly hear weomen say they want a two way street....

On a personal note, there is ONE woman that reached out to me. We chat on IM, we have spoken on the phone and she wants to come to AZ on vacation. Will it end up in a "relationship"? I have no clue, neither does she. Neither of us have any expectations of the other. What we both know is, each of us has made a good friend..


Women!!!!!!D'oh! I need spell check..sigh
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Oslojente
Olso Norway
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 6:56 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
How many have had the courage to reach out to a man? How many have ever tried to become "friends" with a man?

Yet I consistantly hear weomen say they want a two way street....

On a personal note, there is ONE woman that reached out to me. We chat on IM, we have spoken on the phone and she wants to come to AZ on vacation. Will it end up in a "relationship"? I have no clue, neither does she. Neither of us have any expectations of the other. What we both know is, each of us has made a good friend..



I actually find that most of the "friends" I have on here are male...
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New Jersey personals
airliner
Central, New Jersey USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 6:58 PM CST
never had a problem with any of the guys. cheers
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free online dating
jvind
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:07 PM CST
Social habits on this site may not be the best example, but I read a long time ago that men engage in more gossip than women do
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Connecticut personals
Raindog
East Hampton, Connecticut USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:10 PM CST
I don't know about the rest of you but I don't see a point to getting too friendly with too many people on singles sites.

As soon as I'm no longer single, I'll no longer be on these websites. So why bother with "virtual drama"?
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Connecticut singles
KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:23 PM CST
Raindog wrote:
I don't know about the rest of you but I don't see a point to getting too friendly with too many people on singles sites.

As soon as I'm no longer single, I'll no longer be on these websites. So why bother with "virtual drama"?


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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:29 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
How many have had the courage to reach out to a man? How many have ever tried to become "friends" with a man?

Yet I consistantly hear weomen say they want a two way street....

On a personal note, there is ONE woman that reached out to me. We chat on IM, we have spoken on the phone and she wants to come to AZ on vacation. Will it end up in a "relationship"? I have no clue, neither does she. Neither of us have any expectations of the other. What we both know is, each of us has made a good friend..



but what happens when you do reach out as a friend........and the guy automatically assumes you're flirting or trying to "date" him or whatever????? dunno i try to be friends with men......usually the women they are with get upset or he takes it the wrong way......of course there are some i can be friends with.............but hey you can't say a woman doesn't try.....i reach outsticking out tongue i make a better friend than partner anyway laugh
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Nova Scotia singles
Arlene101
Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:43 PM CST
StarliteFantazy wrote:
but what happens when you do reach out as a friend........and the guy automatically assumes you're flirting or trying to "date" him or whatever????? i try to be friends with men......usually the women they are with get upset or he takes it the wrong way......of course there are some i can be friends with.............but hey you can't say a woman doesn't try.....i reach out i make a better friend than partner anyway
Soooooooo true. I have a few GREAT female friends in my real life ,but I have more males friends in real life. I wish it was that easy on here, because I only came on here for fun and to meet people. Any men who need on friend on here just just let me know because I cannot handle all the fighting. wave Great thread.applause
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New Hampshire dating
Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:52 PM CST
Oslojente wrote:
I know the women on here flower, mail, chitchat, gossip, start rumours with/about eachother etc...
and are not always very nice to eachother...So I'm just wondering , without sounding naïve, do you guys as well???
Do you have more guys than women on your favourite list, if you have one...
Maybe keep in touch with more guys than women on here?



Nope don't do those things at all except talk by CS-mail with a few friends.
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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:55 PM CST
Oslojente wrote:
I know the women on here flower, mail, chitchat, gossip, start rumours with/about eachother etc...
and are not always very nice to eachother...So I'm just wondering , without sounding naïve, do you guys as well???
Do you have more guys than women on your favourite list, if you have one...
Maybe keep in touch with more guys than women on here?


confused It seems like the "guy wars" are soon forgotten, and the women's wars live on. For all that I've seen, the guy wars are much more freaky, but I guess that they are forgivable, because not many seem to remember them....

I would rather have a woman tell me I'm a piece of crap than pretend to be my friend...I don't mind doing the same once in awhile. That's life...happens cyberly and in r.l. Anyone who thinks differently lives in a dream world...

I have terrifc women friends on here that I cherish deeply. I have men friends on here who I embrace.

Maybe if the guys would get busy and keep us women busy, we wouldn't have time to get pis@ed off at each otherwink
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Connecticut singles
KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 7:58 PM CST
prncss4someone wrote:
It seems like the "guy wars" are soon forgotten, and the women's wars live on. For all that I've seen, the guy wars are much more freaky, but I guess that they are forgivable, because not many seem to remember them....

I would rather have a woman tell me I'm a piece of crap than pretend to be my friend...I don't mind doing the same once in awhile. That's life...happens cyberly and in r.l. Anyone who thinks differently lives in a dream world...

I have terrifc women friends on here that I cherish deeply. I have men friends on here who I embrace.

Maybe if the guys would get busy and keep us women busy, we wouldn't have time to get pis@ed off at each other


You tell em Princess, us, guys, whatever. rolling on the floor laughing
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Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 8:05 PM CST
i thot i was one
not sure what happened...


blues

i havent seen any real answers
but in general guys are more superficial
in most of their friendships it seems...?
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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Feb 19, 2008, 8:10 PM CST
mindfful wrote:
i thot i was one
not sure what happened...

i havent seen any real answers
but in general guys are more superficial
in most of their friendships it seems...?



are you talking to me? because if you are, sweetie, you unfortunately got caught in a cluster f*ck crossfire of what I was talking about--having nothing to do with you or Honey, for that matter...I know that you take offense easily, and I apologize..it wasn't about youhug
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