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I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..

Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..

Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...

Tell me what you think

Bye for now...

Looks and weight issues...man, you're about to get slaughtered........

It's not worth my opinion

If a woman sees her value in the way I am dressed when I am with her, she has very low value in herself..

I will not mention names, but there is a woman I have gotten to know & know pretty well. She is not the petite little thing my ego is attracted to. I am and forever will be I took the time to get to know this lady. Most likely, nothing will ever develop but what a wonderful friend I have made.

Suck it up dude, look beyond the outward apperance. Just realize that "you" may not be the prize catch that you appear to think you are.. And that my friend is one man to another. I have been where you are..

I usually get a vibe before the end of the first date if it's an eventual "the one." But it has little to do with looks, it's more about common interests and the person's self-confidence.

You have a right to your preferences in the looks department, just remember that she can have them too.

Yes chemistry...been out with drop dead gorgeous hunks but luke warm reaction and forgotten in five minutes...its also about timing and whether you are at the stage to meet the 'one'.

Looks is a part of the attraction but don't ever discount anyone that may not 'fit' into your agenda, you may find yourself pleasantly surprised.

I got a "vibe" already and didn't even have to go on a date!!!

onya mate enjoy the US of A fat country!

exactly right..
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.

..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..

..all the best mate

Appearance and weight both matter in chosing a prospect.

exactly right..
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.

..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..

..all the best

What was that for?
There are fat/overweight people everywhere.

priv8 joke...realise there's fat people everywhere...that's bad

..they need to have an attitude!

..ie do something about it!

We have a rule on cs. You can't talk ill of overweight people.

But character assasination is more than welcome.

Strange no one ( except Lush) touched AN APPEREANCE question.

Nick ( knowing of what times do we live Right Now ... I mean North American region) you would consider yourself lucky if she will put a pair of shoes on instead of sneakers going on a date.

People have to feel comfortable! you know: Freedom of choice and such ... and no one gives a shit ... that there is actually is a difference between Male type of clothes and Females type of clothes.

Sometimes I get really confused trying to find out if that person in jeans or pajama pants is a Woman or she is a Man.

So I would suggest ... do not push this subject just wait until she will arrive on the date ... and if She is He .... than ... well .. it what you gonna have until you divorced. If woman have pride in her to be, to dress, to act as a Woman .... she will always will look like the ONE. No matter if this is a first date or relationship.

Welcome to the Forum! Nick

shhhh........

maybe i have misunderstood, but if you have an issue with 'large ppl' you would not be dating them anyway? ppl are not trophies surely if you liked a persons personality the fact they may be large wouldn't stop you dating them ?

rule? lol

it's my opinion sweety..I am ugly to some people and that's ok by me. Fat people do NOT do it to me. Simple as that hunny..

Cheers and best of luck..

ps: i'm sure fat people shall get over their bridges and that is if the bridges can withstand the weight!!

lol

I always love your comments Jim. You are right on.

please could you include post of person you are addressing, makes it easier.

Your quote i have include is really quite offensive jmo