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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 9:46 PM CST
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?confused
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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 9:52 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?

I am not sure,and you brought up a good question,do we really want to know,three months into my last relationship I found out that he was a nudist,not that there is anything wrong with it but it is just not for me,I viewed him in a different light so to say,no pun intended,and certainly no offense to our nudist here,just a choice.
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swee_tangella
willemstad Netherlands Antilles
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 9:53 PM CST
if it hsa any thing to do with the relationship yes you wany to know but if not leave it alone confused
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sweetliberty
Northwest, Arkansas USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 9:54 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?


No, unless something in it is driving their behavior toward in the relationship. Then it is best to know enough to try and help them work through it, otherwise it is likely to continue to be a problem.
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 9:58 PM CST
I'd definately want to know if they were institutionalised, like a mental hospital or prison.uh oh!
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:01 PM CST
Myself, I don't mind the normal chay stuff, but I dont like hearing every now and then bits at a time about how every relationship was, how they had sex or various other adventures...............
If I need to know I will ask.
But for the most part, I think it is better to start a new life and let the Bad parts of the past be just that..........PAST devil innocent
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:02 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I'd definately want to know if they were institutionalised, like a mental hospital or prison.


No kidding! I have all kinds of guns and I am NOT going to give them up! Ive got to hunt
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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:12 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I'd definately want to know if they were institutionalised, like a mental hospital or prison.

makes you wonder what kind of women you have talked to,you and rasqrolling on the floor laughing
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tallblueeyedgirl
Glendale, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:15 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Myself, I don't mind the normal chay stuff, but I dont like hearing every now and then bits at a time about how every relationship was, how they had sex or various other adventures...............
If I need to know I will ask.
But for the most part, I think it is better to start a new life and let the Bad parts of the past be just that..........PAST


Definitely! Totally agree. But if you ask and you get an answer you dont like, deal with it in a mature fashion.....
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:16 PM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
makes you wonder what kind of women you have talked to,you and rasq


Honestly........ You just never know!
I have not had a good track record at picking them.
But I do know I'm getting too old to play all of those childish games.
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:20 PM CST
tallblueeyedgirl wrote:
Definitely! Totally agree. But if you ask and you get an answer you dont like, deal with it in a mature fashion.....


rolling eyes I'm a big boy..LOL
But if not married... its still fair to ask if need be.
Some things can determine if the relationship should continue or not.

However...If Married- I can handle about anything as long as it is honest. I am one of the guys that has a very mild temper.
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:22 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?



$49.95 can get a complete (including criminal) background check....devil


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Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:29 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
$49.95 can get a complete (including criminal) background check....



did u just check on mine?



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classicrockgirl
Florida, Florida USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:42 PM CST
No don't want to know all the dirty details. Most of the past has nothing to do with your relationship. Only want to know the important things like pertaining to children.
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bamabulldog08
tuscaloosa, Alabama USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:48 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?


I have no desire to know all about her past relationships. Who, how many, how often dose not matter if she's with me now. We all have a past and unless its a criminal past its of no importance.
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j_goose
northfield, Ohio USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:57 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I'd definately want to know if they were institutionalised, like a mental hospital or prison.


OR HAD A SEX CHANGE!!!! That would really suck.
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:58 PM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
makes you wonder what kind of women you have talked to,you and rasq



I've met some...ummm...interesting people so far.....some I wouldn't dream of asking about their past....but I also would date them either.laugh
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 10:58 PM CST
classicrockgirl wrote:
No don't want to know all the dirty details. Most of the past has nothing to do with your relationship. Only want to know the important things like pertaining to children.


Pretty much,, If it can hurt me I want to know, or if it is something that is going to haunt the relationship.
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classicrockgirl
Florida, Florida USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:00 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Pretty much,, If it can hurt me I want to know, or if it is something that is going to haunt the relationship.


Yes agree. Just don't have to know about every little thing they have done or everyone they have been with.
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wfriars
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:01 PM CST
I want to know all the dirty details...yep all of it...I think it means something when you can trust someone enough to know they will love you no matter what.
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