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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:05 PM CST
Yeah if it were something/s that were going to crop up and cause some damage in the relationship.. I'd want to know.

I too am not interest in the details of the sex life with the exs.. I find it off putting to be honest...

unless of course its bad and makes me feel good. giggle
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:07 PM CST
wfriars wrote:
I want to know all the dirty details...yep all of it...I think it means something when you can trust someone enough to know they will love you no matter what.


Some things can be said thoughtless... I just hate it when a gal says...Oh most guys dont like blah,, blahh or, some guys like blah blah.... some people actually get so int details that they tell you positions others liked, how long it lasted or how quick they were...
Just way too much info....Sorry. A bit further than I inted the topic to coverD'oh!
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:11 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
Yeah if it were something/s that were going to crop up and cause some damage in the relationship.. I'd want to know.

I too am not interest in the details of the sex life with the exs.. I find it off putting to be honest...

unless of course its bad and makes me feel good.


Can say things to make you feel good without talking someone else down!!hug
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:13 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Can say things to make you feel good without talking someone else down!!


haha well I know.. but it's always pleasant to know you are better in the sack than the ex laugh
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:15 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
haha well I know.. but it's always pleasant to know you are better in the sack than the ex


Are you kidding............ My Ex was a Jehovah's witness... Think that explains it all rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

No kidding!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:16 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Are you kidding............ My Ex was a Jehovah's witness... Think that explains it all

No kidding!


Oh.. haha I don't much about that.. so to me.. it doesn't explain anything laugh
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:17 PM CST
know*


arrghh sorry im not with it yet D'oh!
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:19 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
Oh.. haha I don't much about that.. so to me.. it doesn't explain anything


I think it might be one step under being a nun..
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:26 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
I think it might be one step under being a nun..


As opposed to being under a nun? laugh
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:27 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
I think it might be one step under being a nun..


Ohh sod that!

Remind me never to be a Jehovah devil
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:28 PM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
As opposed to being under a nun?


hahaha

Hi Bev wave hug
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:30 PM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
As opposed to being under a nun?


Next to Nuncrying crying dropping jaw
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:40 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
hahaha

Hi Bev


wave Hi Claire! Sorry about your nightmare, but at least you're here livening things up a bit!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:41 PM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
Hi Claire! Sorry about your nightmare, but at least you're here livening things up a bit!


haha... is this the graveyard shift now? ..haha

I have to go back to bed soon.. I have to be up soon. frustrated
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:43 PM CST
g'nite
Off to bed myself.... see you guys/ gals later!!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 20, 2008, 11:52 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Off to bed myself.... see you guys/ gals later!!


Cheerri-ohh wave
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Feb 21, 2008, 1:22 PM CST
Back to the OP....

In response to:
When you get real serious into a relationship, How much of their past do you really want to know about?
Do you want to know all of the dirty details?


confused
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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Feb 21, 2008, 1:29 PM CST
I wouldnt say I want to know all the dirty details, but certainly their past gives you a vision into the person they are.

But I cannot stand the 'my ex use to do that' pffffftttttttttttt that gets on my tits.

very mad

We all have a past its accepting it and moving into the future that matters.
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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey
Posted: Feb 21, 2008, 1:42 PM CST
If it was something of importance such as a conviction, illnes that may re occur, thn yes i would want to know just to be aware. As for past relationships nope don't want to go there . Some things are better unsaid and concentrate on the future.
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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Feb 21, 2008, 1:58 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I'd definately want to know if they were institutionalised, like a mental hospital or prison.


Big difference between the two.

And what would yur reaction be to the former?
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