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Big difference between the two.

And what would yur reaction be to the former?

Big difference between the two.

And what would yur reaction be to the former?

sorry for double post..probs with laptop

don't you just hate it when that happens ???? thought you were determined to get an answer

lol well I would like that to

Basically has he got kids, did he kill anyone, any outstanding warrants, food allergies, that's about it, nothing too intrusive.

LOL.. Prison.. Nope... next! Especially if her name is Bobbit!

Past experiences... even though we like to deny the power they hold, Do carry over with us in life.

It is not a comparison of the Ex... but a comparison to say i have been here before.

Also in sharing our past experiences sometimes we find a link of similarity which sometimes even brings a couple closer together know the other understands the feeling and emotion of certain things we have experienced.

And to only share the Bad and none of the Godd is to doom yourself in any relationship...
But understanding the bad gives one a better understanding to reactions given in a radom situation with the new mate.


So it is hard to balance or state the amount.

I say be as open as possible without baring to much burden on your mate (friend or Lover)

It is always hard to open up to a seemigly stranger and equally difficult to be open in return...

Just have to take Baby steps and always be honest... if it is right and ment to be it will continue healthy if not it shall cause a ineviateble death of relations.

"that gets on my tits"

LMAO

Oo I totally agree Eric.. I like to know all about someone..

I'm just not particularly interested in hearing about what bedroom gymnastics they got up to with someone else.

Agree, as long as things are shared in a "Loving" way, Not used to fault the other or to compare you to someone else.
One example: When getting romantic with her and some thngs I would rather not do, If she says... " I don't see why you don't want to.. most guys like it"
That kind of comment is unthoughtful and uncaring.

Yup it is

it cracked me up too

Thats a goodie, luv it

Im glad no one is seeing this!!
You guy tell anyone that I started a serious thread.. I will deny it and hunt you down!!!
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Hmm... I Am being frickin serious!

Absolutely

I would think it would be complicated to think... Hmmm now how many guys would that be

yes constructive insight into how one sees individual issues is always a helping practice.

but to bring it to..... you act just like (he /she) did.... is a killer of credibility.

Or ....you sure are better at this than my last girlfriend

she was much faster than that... so how long are you going to be ...almost there

yeah there has to be a line when it comes to intimacy sharing... i would rather hear.

I like it when you do this or would do this.... than to hear...

well Sam really turned me on when he did... you want to try it???

Or he liked it when i did this... do you think you would???

I think Leaving them out of the bedroom that they no longer share is a good idea

E.
Know it is actually funny to think about some of the stupid use of past..
Sad thing is.. A lot of people really are that bad.

Is like the song.. Things that make you go Hmmm..
Yea I'm a virgin.. why you guys always ask me that?!