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guys.... answer this question for me please...

England personals
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Feb 23, 2008, 9:03 AM CST
thegreeneyedbrat wrote:
never once strayed... not with my ex husband, not any relationships


Oo me neither scold thumbs down thumbs down
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Arizona dating
HJFinAZ
Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 23, 2008, 9:29 AM CST
"Sometimes", one simply needs to know when to turn around and walk away........dancing
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wfriars
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Feb 23, 2008, 9:39 AM CST
Men by nature are hunter, warriors, conquerors. They thrive off the hunt and the kill, but they are not really interested in the clean up.

How do this applies to your situation?

Well you my frient have become like a domestic animal to the hunter. There is no hunt involved and the butcher takes care of the mess. It's a win/lose situation for the hunter, as he has the meat he's looking for but the thrill of the hunt and chase have eluded him. So instead of being happy with a full stomach, they keep searching to fill that void in their soul for the chase/hunt.

My suggestion to you, let him chase you. Let him realize that you are something worth hunting. If he really cares about you, he will come after you! And when he does take your time, make it worth both your time.

Best of luck!!!
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California dating
thegreeneyedbrat
Ridgecrest/China Lake, California USA
Posted: Feb 23, 2008, 9:59 AM CST
Thanks everyone for the input... I've had some time to sleep on it... Decided to just step back and go my own way... not going to give up the friendship, but hot going to hold my breath....

I believe someone mentioned the possibility of my "picker was broke".... beginning to agree.
As for the comment of "her tools being bigger than mine I'm outta here"...lol... that's the one thing he didn't have to worry about.. only my chest was...lol
The "hunter comment"... he's too busy chasing the wrong kind of prey... the poisonous kind... so I'm going to just step back and wait with the antidote (as usual).

To any comments I missed... I'm sorry, my memory is a bit shaky right now...lol

Again, thank you all for the imput
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Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 4:54 PM CST
You are not a challange, your not playing hard to get which you should be doing? you dont need him, does he need you? If a guy KNOWS your ALWAYS gonna be there He will be willing to to whatever he wants because he knows no matter what you aint goin no where? put your self in his shoes!peace peace
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Wisconsin singles
lover65
Vero Beach, Florida USA
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 7:41 PM CST
Italian_frankie wrote:
You are not a challange, your not playing hard to get which you should be doing? you dont need him, does he need you? If a guy KNOWS your ALWAYS gonna be there He will be willing to to whatever he wants because he knows no matter what you aint goin no where? put your self in his shoes!



Frankie's got a valid point.
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pipeman109
belmont, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 7:49 PM CST
woman are like mushrooms feed them shit keep them in the dark and they grow !!!!!!!! lolrolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Virginia personals
yoursuperman
Lynchburg, Virginia USA
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 7:54 PM CST
well maybe he dont like nice get a stick beat his azz Bi**ch him out he might come around. professor
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lovebird4ya
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 7:55 PM CST
thegreeneyedbrat wrote:
When you find a gal...
She has more tools than you (but is more than willing to share)
She doesn't want your money (she has her own and is willing to share)
She doesn't nag, bitch, piss or moan (except when it's good...lol) about your quirks
She has been there for you thru many a break up... never once saying "I told you so"...
She continues to be there for you... no matter what...
Why does the guy keep searching...
Why does he keep searching for someone to hurt him (emotionally)
Why does he keep looking for abuse



sad flower i just can say one thing god bless you and watch out sad flower
i remember one song...
""mr... walk slowly slowly and watch out in the road of love,,,,
""there are so many fake things you can find on this road"""
i think its enough if you can think
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Islas Baleares personals
jbibiza
Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 8:05 PM CST
No matter how well you get on with a person, or how well they treat you, if that spark is missing, you can't make yourself fall in love with them. A one sided relationship never works... you're putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of and I know for myself if a person allows me to take advantage of them, I don't respect them and without respect, there can never be love.
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Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 8:10 PM CST
Hey, what is that saying? Don't know what you had until it is gone? Maybe you should be gone, and then see what happens...head banger head banger
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South Dakota dating
wanderinggnome
Belle Fourche, South Dakota USA
Posted: Mar 24, 2008, 8:23 PM CST
thegreeneyedbrat wrote:
When you find a gal...
She has more tools than you (but is more than willing to share)
She doesn't want your money (she has her own and is willing to share)
She doesn't nag, bitch, piss or moan (except when it's good...lol) about your quirks
She has been there for you thru many a break up... never once saying "I told you so"...
She continues to be there for you... no matter what...
Why does the guy keep searching...
Why does he keep searching for someone to hurt him (emotionally)
Why does he keep looking for abuse


WIsh I had that answer myself. The closest I can come is that the ones we love do not always percieve us the way we want them to. You give until you can't take the rejection any more,I suppose. At that point you have the choice of staying in misery or moving on , carrying the good memories and letting go of te pain. Good luck to you.
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Utah singles
HuskyRomantic
Salt Lake City, Utah USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 9:25 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
Some guys are like some girls, they always pick the wrong ones.

If anyone knew the answer to why, we wouldn't need dating sites now would we?

Sorry you're going through this hun, he may grow up some day and figure out what's good for him. Maybe not, some guys never do. I wouldn't hold my breath waiting if I were you.


Excellent advice.professor thumbs up cheers
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Florida personals
shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: May 9, 2008, 10:36 AM CST
because this type of woman is too busy running for the presidency...to pay any attention to her Bill...er...I mean husbandrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing sticking out tongue
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