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Totally!!! I don't get this male attitude of thinking it's great if he can keep it up for two hours... There are better things then longevity... I greatly prefer "come back power" to "staying power"!

Hi ladies, and ras!

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No, Morgan, you had dibs first! I will gracefully bow out.

yes i did, they couldn't find me...and sometimes, after an hour of sweating and liters of water, you just figure out he's just a sportive looser, you gotta stop it!

Do you think this is down to selfishness on his part ? or no knowledge of sexual technique ?

Neither, I think it's one of those things that have just gotten misconstrued over the years and continues to be misunderstood. I love having 4 or 5 hours of sex with a man, but that doesn't mean I want him to keep it up that long and keep pounding away... so much nicer to play for a while, then 15 to 20 min of actual intercourse, some playful kissing a drink... some more playing...

I have actually had men apologize for getting off in 10 min... hell as long as they can come back for seconds I think it's great that they were that turned on.

This probably falls under the heading of TMI, but maybe a few boys will read this and realize marathon sex doesn't mean 2 hours of pounding away!!!

all about communication

Some of you Gals have definately been with some real winners!

I wont go into any great detail here,, that would be watt TMI!!!
But I will say this much.
Insertion is NOT the only aspect of MAKING LOVE !
SEX is one thing.... MAKING LOVE is drastically another.
But teasing and playing along the way is FANTASTIC!!!!

Great NOW you explain it..for the last 20 years I was given the impression that insertion was the only thing in making love...

Great NOW you explain it..for the last 20 years I was given the impression that insertion was the only thing in making love...

I hope I haven't offended anyone by speaking so frankly about sex. I worked as a sex therapist for a just over a year and forget sometimes that not everyone is as comfortable talking about sex.

Getting frustrated???
I heard you the first time

It don't bother me one bit to talk open and honest about it!

LOL VERY frustrated but the twice thingy was a mishap with my sister's computer.. I promise I didn't do it!

Ahhh, yes, and I am quite certain that jb and Morgan and the rest of us know the difference between sex and making love. Making love starts before the clothes are off...before the bed is reached...before he takes my hand and leads me in that direction (or vice-versa). Yes, we know the difference. And the difference is HUGE.

BEDROOM

Believe me... we know that, just need more of you boys to know it! Guys brag about their ability to keep it up... do you know how bad that can make a woman feel... like she doesn't excite you enough to...

not all but SO many guy's do think only of themselves.

Thats because some guys think Viagra is the answer.
But it is useless if you don't know how to use it once you get it!

Kind of like using an ice pick as a screwdriver.........will take you forever and still not accomplish the job!

I do understand what you are saying here!!

Well, after 20 years with one of those types..I think I'll be more agressive next time! LOL

For me i love the game playing, the looks, the comments, the most powerful sex organ is the brain, using your sexuality , way before the physical sex.