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No one can beat mine.

maybe they need to put more calcium in with the viagra.

EXCELLANT nothing better than a cute stalker....


Its a real ego booster at my age....

Lsmile...Ive missed you....

Did not mean to imply that we should be "in love" in order to have sex. Although, like some said, making love is much better. But if we all waited 'til we were in love, who knows when that would be!

I like Shipoker's answer. Just about summed it up for all of us, I think.

For me, there would have to be caring and emotional attachment, to some extent.

As for the age reference, I was speaking from my viewpoint, at way over 50!

My take on this is really quite simple...... not with someone long term, fulfill your needs, and desires, and help them fulfill theirs...... keeping a good understanding between you, that someone may eventually come along changing the mutual understanding you've enjoyed....

On the other hand, if you have someone special, and are in love, then the scope of sex changes...... instead of having sex, you live it..... every moment of every day...... The connection you feel never deposes itself from your burning desire to be together... you live for your moments together..... and there are never enough of them.

I think this is a very individual thing not really related to age or gender, but more to the level of passion that a person has. Men do not, do not have all the passion stored up inside them, women are very passionate also if the door to their hearts are opened by the man in their lives. Our hearts need a certain chemistry and a secure safe feeling to open up to all that we possess inside. Only the right man can open up the passion inside, not just anyone so that's why it seems women do not have the same level of passion a man has, we want to not only enjoy the physical part, which that can be out-of-this-world, but we need the emotional zing of the love making too

JMO...Peaches

PS...I don't know if it's anymore important, but age has not lessened its pleasure

Sex is still just as important as I age, but sometimes, I just wanna find out what's on TV first.

that's what I meant by your dog doesn't hunt,j/k

Me too Dods.

Typo: 'None' can beat mine.

I'm still tryin to remember what it means!!!!!!!!

want a race?

I would have to say that sex is more important as we grow older, but then it starts to reverse at some point, where it becomes less important.


i mean pls i didn't do anything till i was almost 18...and only had six partners....

I'm 60 and sex is still damn important. But for me, I don't go there unles I feel the relationship has a chance of going somewhere. I know who I'm lookng for and I know how to weed the garden very quickly.

Where does that all get me sexually? . . .

Lets just say that if I want to have safe sex these days, it usually requires a rubber glove.

This thread reminds me of a story......

During a conference PARTY, the host of the event decided to have some fun went up the mic and asked the crowd in attendance.


He asked....''OK,how many of you men here have had sex only once this week.''


7 or 8 hands grumpily were raised.....

Alright,said the host...."How many of you men here have only had sex once in the last three months?"

4 or 5 hands were grumpily raised....

''Now,'' said the host,''HOW many men here have only had sex once in the last year?''

Two or three guys embarrassingly raised their hands.......

Finally,the host says,"How many men here have only had sex once in the last 5 years?''


For a minute,nobody raises their hand,and all of a sudden,an 85 year old man gets up from the back row, and raises his hand with A HUGE smile on his face.

The host looked on in amazement and said,''Sir,if you don't mind me asking.....Why do you have such a huge smile on your face if you've only had sex once in the last 5 years.''


The 85 year old man said, with a huge grin,''I know I'VE only had sex once in the last 5 years..........................






























..............BUT IT WAS TODAY!''

What the heck's wrong with crochet anyway?

"Hang up the mattress"??

Seriously, my answer is that in one way - based on my sense of mortality - sex is *more* important; in another way - giving more weight to the value of the whole person - sex is *less* important now.

You might say my two heads have a slight disagreement over the matter. Hey, Jeffrey!

Hey, who's that handsome hatted compadre? Something familiar about the guy...