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A commitment to a certain thing cannot be held as unfulfilled if that thing never came to the test.

To commit to grow a flower in the daylight cannot be held broken if only darkness was given and the flower dies.

In the Bible, there is the law of husband.

You are not bound by the law of husband before God in this case.

You do not commit sin by marrying again. So you are free in that also.


Good luck in planning your new life, reject the foolish things and search for the solid things to grow a new life upon.



Len

Freedom is wonderful, carebare! Just don't let the love of it interfere with love. Best wishes

Sad because I couldn't hold true to my commitments
made before god. But in a whole I know our decision
is the best for myself and my son.


A long time ago a priest told me that one could look at the commitments we make in life before God that sometimes, some of those show, teach us how to grow. Failing in some may have served a higher purpose, as you grew and made the correct choice, not out of selfishness but for and in the best interests of you and your son in this case...perhaps that was the test of true commitment. Congratulations...%)

totally understand and sympathise with your current emotions Carebear

One things that I found really important to remember and was fortunate to be reminded by caring people around me is to not be so hard on myself and to forgive myself for whatever I "consider I have not lived up to" and to use for myself the caring advice I would be sharing with someone else in my own situation ...

It DOES feel sad to let go of the past because it's a mourning of what once was ... It DOES deserve focus and acknowledgement so that you can then LET IT GO in a healthy way rather than bury the emotions ...

Then ... hugs yourself and your son and congratulate yourself and him for all your achievements in spite of the difficulties and struggles you had to face AND the difficult decisions you were also faced with ...

Welcome your new life with a smile on both your faces and as someone else mentioned "flower and darkness" think of the flowers that have been a little trampled, a little neglected ... once they get pruned, a new pot with new soil and are tended regularly see how they bloom and florish to grow strong and more beutiful than ever ...

Embrace your freedom

Wow!

I'm shocked somewhat. I've met many people here on CS over the last 1 1/2 years. I've given of my heart completely and will to whoever is in need. I haven't opened myself up to as many as I would have liked to. Due to my own insecurities of being seperated. I'm not without security completely and have no embarrassment in saying so. Not ashamed to be me. I hope this shows I am just a person, who feels, who worries, who cares. Just tells you I'm real. To be real is to feel, love and live. It makes me very happy to see that those. I have thought so highly of have come together to lift me up when I needed it the most. You are all truly beautiful people and for that I'm forever grateful. Everything went well today thank you again.


Sincerely,
Karrie
aka: Carebear01

I remember feeling like a great big failure on D day.


Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Even if it's only a torrid sexual fling, I'm here to help.

From the movie Under the Tuscan Sun....

A marriage begins with cake and champagne. It should end with cake and champagne.



Wishing you all the luck, hun. Be well.

dana

Thank you sweetheart...
I appreciate your wiliness to help...
Your very sweet.

You... are crazy man...
But when not focusing on your sexual outbursts,
even though they are quite cute...
I have seen some very nice words posted.
Just a little fyi for ya.

Glad to hear it went well sweety....

Oh and yes that's a compliment!

I have only had one marriage and one divorce in my life and I survived both,you will be fine,and if not come here and visit us,we will make you laugh

Good luck, Karrie........enjoy life as it was meant to be lived.

I'm ok...

Very happy today...
I do, this is my fun.

I don't know you either Karrie but I respect your honesty about how you're really feeling. Hang in there--time takes time.

Barry

Was it something I said?
Well maybe...
Too blunt for my own good sometimes.
Come back...
I meant no disrespect, honestly...

I'm happy that everything worked out for you:)

You have reached a new beginning after going down a tough road. You will make the best of it and with your positive personality, you'll be fine. Best of luck to you and you son.

You will be missed