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at the same time eh morgan...

"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

hmm .. ok Trudy my views ...

I think when it comes to intimacy ... as in talking about an experience rather than an act driven by the senses alone .. both are required .. domination and submission.

Yes, partly to avoid boredom but partly as thats how its going to be normally spontaneously ..

But if one is interested in an experience entirely and not just the feeling part of it .. to say as an involvement of 2 people at different levels .. it definitely goes much beyond the 2 mentioned factors rather involves both in co-operation and much more.

I hope this make sense.

makes good sense and i agree there is much more involved then those 2 factors to keep things interesting and exciting..

I wish for it to be 82 degrees here and not -13!!!!!!!!!

lol How pleasantly hurting do you want it to be?

Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

Too much effort to be consistently dominant for what one gets out of it; prefer domestic and subversive or at other times it was domestic/ domicidal, even donatory and when inspired, a distortionist but always subversive! %)

Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap

Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap

Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap

ok hunni bend over......

Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

I thought about it, Blue, and I'm not entirely certain I know how to apply them to me. I think I would classify myself as an "egalitarian" when it comes to sex. After considering many lovemaking bouts in my mind (memory aided by "tingling" KY jelly), I can't truly say that I'm either in any definitive sense. I recall going from top to bottom to in-between in single sessions, alternately taking the initiative and having the initiative taken, and I think that would apply to the vast majority of my "love sessions."

ok hunni bend over......

alrighty then falling..

would have to agree with hugz on this one...

Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

hmm .. ok Trudy my views ...

I think when it comes to intimacy ... as in talking about an experience rather than an act driven by the senses alone .. both are required .. domination and submission.

Yes, partly to avoid boredom but partly as thats how its going to be normally spontaneously ..

But if one is interested in an experience entirely and not just the feeling part of it .. to say as an involvement of 2 people at different levels .. it definitely goes much beyond the 2 mentioned factors rather involves both in co-operation and much more.

I hope this make sense.