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Dominant or Submissive?




morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 8:32 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
at the same time eh morgan...
To damn right !! dancing banana applause dancing banana
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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 8:33 AM CST
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

hmm .. ok Trudy my views ... professor

I think when it comes to intimacy ... as in talking about an experience rather than an act driven by the senses alone .. both are required .. domination and submission.

Yes, partly to avoid boredom but partly as thats how its going to be normally spontaneously ..

But if one is interested in an experience entirely and not just the feeling part of it .. to say as an involvement of 2 people at different levels .. it definitely goes much beyond the 2 mentioned factors rather involves both in co-operation and much more.

I hope this make sense.

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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 8:54 AM CST
riyablossom wrote:
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

hmm .. ok Trudy my views ...

I think when it comes to intimacy ... as in talking about an experience rather than an act driven by the senses alone .. both are required .. domination and submission.

Yes, partly to avoid boredom but partly as thats how its going to be normally spontaneously ..

But if one is interested in an experience entirely and not just the feeling part of it .. to say as an involvement of 2 people at different levels .. it definitely goes much beyond the 2 mentioned factors rather involves both in co-operation and much more.

I hope this make sense.


makes good sensecheers and i agree there is much more involved then those 2 factors to keep things interesting and exciting..thumbs up
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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 8:57 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
makes good sense and i agree there is much more involved then those 2 factors to keep things interesting and exciting..


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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 9:33 AM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I wish for it to be 82 degrees here and not -13!!!!!!!!!


POOF!!!!!!!! You are now in AZ and warm weather..grin



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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 9:34 AM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
lol How pleasantly hurting do you want it to be?


"VERY".................grin




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solitare
Munchen, Bayern Germany
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 10:03 AM CST
Too much effort to be consistently dominant for what one gets out of it; prefer domestic and subversive or at other times it was domestic/ domicidal, even donatory and when inspired, a distortionist but always subversive! %)
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will44stud
greenville, South Carolina USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 10:14 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

sometimes i like to be dominant other times submissive the women im with should be the same dominant on e time submissive the next sometimes in the same encounter!applause
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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 10:49 AM CST
solitare wrote:
Too much effort to be consistently dominant for what one gets out of it; prefer domestic and subversive or at other times it was domestic/ domicidal, even donatory and when inspired, a distortionist but always subversive! %)


grin cheers
not much more i can say to that laugh
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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 10:53 AM CST
Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap laugh laugh laugh
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bluebabsie
cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:05 AM CST
Dknew wrote:
Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap
ok hunni bend over......yay yay sad flower
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bluebabsie
cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:05 AM CST
Dknew wrote:
Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap
ok hunni bend over......yay yay sad flower
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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:29 AM CST
Dknew wrote:
Whip me , Beat me , Make me feel cheap


oh yes dnew...thats the way to be...grin
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Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:30 AM CST
bluebabsie wrote:
ok hunni bend over......


hey babsie...you dominant chick!thumbs up
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:34 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."


I thought about it, Blue, and I'm not entirely certain I know how to apply them to me. I think I would classify myself as an "egalitarian" when it comes to sex. After considering many lovemaking bouts in my mind (memory aided by "tingling" KY jelly), I can't truly say that I'm either in any definitive sense. I recall going from top to bottom to in-between in single sessions, alternately taking the initiative and having the initiative taken, and I think that would apply to the vast majority of my "love sessions."confused dunno wine heart
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:36 AM CST
Ambrose2007 wrote:
I thought about it, Blue, and I'm not entirely certain I know how to apply them to me. I think I would classify myself as an "egalitarian" when it comes to sex. After considering many lovemaking bouts in my mind (memory aided by "tingling" KY jelly), I can't truly say that I'm either in any definitive sense. I recall going from top to bottom to in-between in single sessions, alternately taking the initiative and having the initiative taken, and I think that would apply to the vast majority of my "love sessions."


To put it another way, I'm fairly sure I wouldn't be comfortable being either a dominant or a submissive; nor would I be comfortable with someone who was either of those (predominately).

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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:37 AM CST
bluebabsie wrote:
ok hunni bend over......


Babsie, you give new meaning to "love me two times, girl" (Doors song lyrics)!wave hug
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:39 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
alrighty then falling..

would have to agree with hugz on this one...


Blue, if it were you and I, I'd say "let's keep it simple," and decide which position we assume by wrist-wrestling. Sound fair to you?devil blushing wave kiss
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:45 AM CST
blue_eyed_blonde wrote:
Would you consider yourself to be dominant in bed or more submissive?

What are your sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies when it comes to dominant and subordinate behaviors? Tell us your dirty lil secrets...
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."


Submissive...definitely. I prefer for the guy to take the lead in the physical side of the relationship.

Even for the rest of the relationship, just as long as my opinion in considered and I'm valued as a person.
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Feb 27, 2008, 11:46 AM CST
riyablossom wrote:
"In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally."

hmm .. ok Trudy my views ...

I think when it comes to intimacy ... as in talking about an experience rather than an act driven by the senses alone .. both are required .. domination and submission.

Yes, partly to avoid boredom but partly as thats how its going to be normally spontaneously ..

But if one is interested in an experience entirely and not just the feeling part of it .. to say as an involvement of 2 people at different levels .. it definitely goes much beyond the 2 mentioned factors rather involves both in co-operation and much more.

I hope this make sense.


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