Posted: Mar 25, 2008, 12:50 AM CST
tryandcatchme72 wrote:Maybe it helps to forget.
I myself am confused to pieces over 40 years of a very uneventful, quiet existence.
Can't imagine coping with remembering the years and events of past lives too.I am truley sorry, and mean no disrespect to you. But I do not understand much of what you just said. How can someone be confused by a very uneventful quiet existance? Most people would give there right arm for that kind of life. and your reply makes me question even more that God is forgiving or that he exsists. And as far as this being hell on earth, If you could not cope with your past lives too, Well what are you coping with that would make this hell for you? And why do you get a quiet uneventful life, while others are suffering with illness, starvation, there own governments turning against them, broken hearts, loss of every concievible thing imanginable? PLEASE tell that to the the 2 year old little boy who will die tonight becuase there was no food or medical attention for him that he sufferd be cause God is a mystery. But there is a reason you have a quiet uneventful life here in hell and he had to suffer every single day of his life.
Please tell that to the aids baby that no one wants that he has to be alone and suffer Because God see's it fit to give you and others a quiet uneventful life in hell and others will suffer and continue to suffer!
My point exactly! God is fair, and forgiving! I believe the only ones who believe that are the ones who live quiet uneventful lives, and keep blinders on to what is happening to the rest of the world.
I personally beleive that wether there is a God or not the world is ours and it is what we make it. There is suffering and there will all ways be suffering until each and every single person is willing to help each other, instead of trying to hurt each other.
It just seems to me that there are to many people in the world that turn there back on a fellow human being, and says Sorry Bub, we all have our own problems your in hell with the rest of us. Deal with it!
No one seems to think what happens in there lives is fair. I wonder just how many people have ever said Why God why me this is so unfair! Did God do it or did we do it to our selves?
One of the reasons ,imo, that this place often feels like hell is that people react from their own anger instead of trying to understand other people/situations.
May I remind you that you know NOTHING on any level about me.
And though you say you don't meant to disrespect me, you sound like you have no problem resenting and offending me.
Go back and read my posts and you may get a better idea of who you have so willingly attacked.
I have VOLUNTEERED 3 yrs for UNICEF, 4 yrs for the Pan African Day Care Centre that used to be here.
I have never stopped working as a teacher since I began 22 yrs ago (not exactly a sit down job).
I lost my mother to cancer when I was in my 20's, have only ever been with a guy for 3 yrs (and that was over a decade ago), never had the joy of marriage or children. Lived alone the past 18 yrs.
Mentally ill sister who hates me, can't ever go to see my 80 yr old dad because he lives with her,
today's a holiday so I'm here on CS answering you......
Shall I go on..... does that give you a better idea of what a quiet life can be?
2 things I'd like to clear up:
1.I never said this was hell on earth. I said it may NOT be....
2.At some point you ask why I get a quiet life while others get ''hell''. My response is twofold -
a. what makes you think a quiet life is void of pain?
b. I really don't know.
Don't resent people their quiet lives.
There's more than enough pain going round.
And if some people do have quiet, uneventful lives it is usually because they have learned to contain their pain and anger and have accepted whatever small portion life has given out to them as their lot.
Finito.