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Hmmm...

OK .. Lets assume one has found the person of their dreams and seeks to live a happy life with him/her ..

Life has its own funny ways ... things happen when we least expect them. As days slowly pass by one fine day .. if one of them is diagnosed to have a chronic disease .. say the woman develops Vitiligo , some skin disease or cancer , a condition that might not keep her as attractive and appealing as she is today ..

or say he / she meets with an accident and is unfortunately unable to function perfectly as before. There is a deficit ....... could be physical / mental ..

Now what would you do ? Still go ahead in pursuing the relationship LIKE BEFORE WITHOUT ANY CHANGE ? and maybe get married some day ..

LETS BE REAL !!

Hi riya really difficult one and so easy to say it would make no difference, but i think in reality it does depending on what the disability is, can have effect on having a family . Really hard but maybe one of those times to let someone go if you really love them.

Thanks Morgan and good to see you

If he really was my kindred spirit, man of my dreams. Then I'd definitely stick with him until the end

However, if it was just someone I was casually dating then I would not be able to give any guarantees I'd stay with him mainly because I don't think I could stay with someone for pitys sake only

agree with you Zell it will build up resentment which would do neither any good . Hi riya

I sort of feel the same .. its not about his problem or what has happened really .. but the fact that unless its a really strong feeling or serious relationship.. its difficult to say what next ..

hii ..

Definitely .. as i feel him / her whatever the case it is .. there builds up a distance if not thought about and acted upon wisely ..

Though if it was a serious commitment it wouldnt really matter one bit ..

I agree with Zell ^

Yes, it would in the long run think I should have added that on end of my post so glad you mentioned it

I have to pretty much agree with what the Ladies expressed.

It all depends the relationship and how long you been together. But if i really loved someone i would want to be there come hell or high water. Its all part of loving some one

Riya has eeeyes

it will be the mouth next..

:: whispers::: bet it is as big as mine

Absolutely it is..

Helloo Mair

Oo sorry.. and Zell Morgan Reeeyaaa

Pretty much?

You know I really couldn't give an answer to that without being in the situation, of course I would like to think that I would stay with them, but the truth is I don't know. I do think that something physical would be easier to deal with then mental. With a mental disease or injury... would the person you had come to love still be there? Hard question.

I did date a man with Parkinson's disease for a few months, I found it really difficult. While I respected the fact that he insisted on doing everything for himself, I often found myself lacking the patience to deal with it... 15 minutes to put gas in the car, 5 minutes to unlock a door... I found myself wanting to reach over and just do it myself. Would I be more patient with someone I was in love with? I hope so.

Now I sound like a horrible, insensitive biatch... but I'm honest.

Hya Cariad

:pinches her and pulls her ponytail: where were u so long ???

Hi Claayer I worked in Social Care hands on for years i know others here do. I had so much respect and admiration for families who are 24 hr cares, i know for a fact i could not do that , these people are hero's in there own right jmo

hmm .. anything specific you would like to add?

phew !!! Yes JB .. th epatience required is immense !!!! I wonder if its possible day in and day out .. definitely there will be repercussions on your own self ..