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i dont know what to do i was with someone and he broke my heart bad and i am so depressed does anyone have any advice on what to do??????????

the Best way to get over an old lover....

Is to get under a new one....

No need to thank me....it's my pleasure....

Why don't you tell us a bit about what happened?

let it go...just let it go. I have been there and I know this doesn't help but no advice will help until you just let it go.

exactly, that kind of pain mostly depend on how you preceive what happened. Only with more or less of the story we will be able to enlighthen you for a "better" pain

it is so hard when you are hurting so badly and almost impossible to see anything possible, i think it is like going thro a bereavement process it takes time, support from friends who will listen and not try to tell you how you should feel, and try to take each day as it comes.

possible ???? i meant POSITIVE

Hi sweetie, can I offer my advice to you as you have asked?




first...you have to feel what you feel in order to get past it,
then you will get angry about it and the hurt feelings will subside during this time,
next you will accept it and choose to no longer subject yourself to the pain of this loss and then you will move on...
but...

for now feel what you are feeling ..dont try and repress it ..if you do that you will never get through the next step so you can move one and eventually someone new will come into your life and show you that you can feel again without hurting , that you can love again...and most of all that you can forget the pain you feel right now....


you will get through this hon...I have experienced what you are as many in here have...and it does subside after you have reached the end of the process and then and only then can you really let it go.....jodi

try not let it get to you that much cause the more you think about it the more it will bring u down try and move on find someone that will not break your heart just say to urself it wasnt meant to be as there will be someone out there for you

Get busy, hun. Stay active and healthy. Do not stay home and mope yourself into a deep depression.

Think about it, do you want someone that would hurt you that badly? No, you're better than that. You deserve a man that appreciates all that you have to offer.

So, get up off the dirt and climb back up on that horse sweetie. And take good care of yourself physically, eat right and exercise - honestly - it will help your mind to cope with this. If you have to, just focus on that - taking care of yourself, the rest will come naturally.

But get out of the house.

I wish I could help you. But if you need a should, email me. I'll be there.

Dana

How did he hurt u?...

It does get better.. we have all been through it.. and have the battle scars..

Is this a recent development?

Think about making yourself happy, not anybody else. You're the priority, nobody else!

This is my reply to all break ups......Build a bridge and get over it

Hi Jodi, Earl & I will be traveling through Conway, SC in a couple of months perhaps we'll breeze by and say "hello."

Shelia

Sometimes it takes a long time to climb over that bridge. Hearts dont mend easily.

Jodie was right,t's like the stages of mourning a death.Any loss has to be looked at and excepted.When ready move on.It happens to everyone.Have a good cry,beat a pillow and then deal with it.I am very srry for loss of relationship. my heart goes out to you.

I would agree with Jodi on this one ...
In my experience when one "runs away" from ones feelings one discovers later that they are faster than us and are waiting for us just round the corner ... unless one follows the process of letting go ...

Dezzie, you're lucky, because you're young and pretty.

Go out with your friends. Make new male friends with no expectations but enjoying the moment.

Believe me, I know how you feel. I'll be thinking about you.

Go for a walk then a run .Seriously.Exercise is very good medicine.

Regards
Walter