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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 12:58 PM CST
While discussing with a friend yest. , i kind of got wondering .. if there is something called Destiny / Fate or even Luck !!

Now he said where there is free will it is difficult to give place to an entity like destiny .. hmmm

I think the fact that we have free will and believing that our actions design or even set outlines for our future there should be something like a destiny or a chalked outline ....

What say ?????

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:22 PM CST
I do believe in Destiny... but I don't think it is one single definable path.. its more like it is a definite direction... I think we often stray .. but are drawn magnetically back on to it...

Like me becoming a Lawyer.. definitely destiny... so many coincidences.. had to be something going on.. I kid u not!! grin
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:24 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
While discussing with a friend yest. , i kind of got wondering .. if there is something called Destiny / Fate or even Luck !!

Now he said where there is free will it is difficult to give place to an entity like destiny ..

I think the fact that we have free will and believing that our actions design or even set outlines for our future there should be something like a destiny or a chalked outline ....

What say ?????


I think we all decide our fate, we can change what we want to change.
no destiny to it. JMOhandshake
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:25 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
I do believe in Destiny... but I don't think it is one single definable path.. its more like it is a definite direction... I think we often stray .. but are drawn magnetically back on to it...

Like me becoming a Lawyer.. definitely destiny... so many coincidences.. had to be something going on.. I kid u not!!


So sue me if i"m wrong! LMAOrolling on the floor laughing

peace
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:26 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
I do believe in Destiny... but I don't think it is one single definable path.. its more like it is a definite direction... I think we often stray .. but are drawn magnetically back on to it...

Like me becoming a Lawyer.. definitely destiny... so many coincidences.. had to be something going on.. I kid u not!!


I agree...some times our actions make us take the long way around...BUT I also believe that a series of events will always occur that are not within our control to bring us back to our destined path!!!!!!!



wine
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Irishman1
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:32 PM CST
What is meant to be will be,and what is not meant to be will not belaugh that's how i see thingscool wine
riyablossom wrote:
While discussing with a friend yest. , i kind of got wondering .. if there is something called Destiny / Fate or even Luck !!

Now he said where there is free will it is difficult to give place to an entity like destiny ..

I think the fact that we have free will and believing that our actions design or even set outlines for our future there should be something like a destiny or a chalked outline ....

What say ?????
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:35 PM CST
Irishman1 wrote:
What is meant to be will be,and what is not meant to be will not be that's how i see things


WOW Irish...you're soooooooo philosophical today!!!!!!!

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Irishman1
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:40 PM CST
I am wearing my professor hat todaylaugh -------------->professor
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
WOW Irish...you're soooooooo philosophical today!!!!!!!
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:41 PM CST
Irishman1 wrote:
I am wearing my professor hat today -------------->


It shows...professor cheering grin
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Irishman1
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 1:47 PM CST
Lecture monday morning 10am don't be latelaugh professor
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
It shows...
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:22 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
I think we all decide our fate, we can change what we want to change.
no destiny to it. JMO


hmmm

So , if we decide our path .. sometimes after all those efforts things dont turn out the way they should for no good reason... how do you explain that?
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:23 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I agree...some times our actions make us take the long way around...BUT I also believe that a series of events will always occur that are not within our control to bring us back to our destined path!!!!!!!


So there is an unseen force sort of guiding you on a path which is pre- determined ?
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:25 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
So there is an unseen force sort of guiding you on a path which is pre- determined ?


I think so yep...We are all here to learn...sometimes we learn the hard way...BUT we all eventually get the lessons sooner or later...no matter how much we try to fight it and we will keep getting them until we actually learn from them!!!!!!!




wine
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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:27 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
So , if we decide our path .. sometimes after all those efforts things dont turn out the way they should for no good reason... how do you explain that?


Because sometimes we make the wrong decisions...we are not infallible Riya!

Sometimes things are just beyond our control due to external factors.
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:28 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I think so yep...We are all here to learn...sometimes we learn the hard way...BUT we all eventually get the lessons sooner or later...no matter how much we try to fight it and we will keep getting them until we actually learn from them!!!!!!!


hmmm.... so... I assume it is God and our deeds who decide the path and we follow the same .. is that a correct interpretation ?
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:29 PM CST
Jan1305 wrote:
Because sometimes we make the wrong decisions...we are not infallible Riya!

Sometimes things are just beyond our control due to external factors.


wave hi !!!

Do you believe in destiny Jan ?
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:33 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
hmmm.... so... I assume it is God and our deeds who decide the path and we follow the same .. is that a correct interpretation ?


I think so...I think we are all here until we fullfill our purpose here on earth...whatever that may be...Some are here only for a short time...while others are here for a lengthy time...according to their purpose...but I think situations will always occur beyond our control to ensure our purpose is fullfilled no matter what it is....wine
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:34 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I think so...I think we are all here until we fullfill our purpose here on earth...whatever that may be...Some are here only for a short time...while others are here for a lengthy time...according to their purpose...but I think situations will always occur beyond our control to ensure our purpose is fullfilled no matter what it is....


hmmm thankyou .. hug
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:35 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
thankyou ..


hug teddy bear hug
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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain
Posted: Mar 1, 2008, 2:40 PM CST
Hi Riya,

No I don't think so. I believe that everything that happens to us is based on the decisions we make, right or wrong, and as I said earlier, external factors which we have no control over.

It's very easy to explain away wonderful or sad unexpected happenings in our life as being part of our destiny or fate.

For me it's an expression of speech that people have always used and in the end some begin to believe the literal meaning.
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