Can You Fall In Love With Someone BEFORE you meet them?

RainbowSlider
Yellville USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:22 AM CST

I had to learn the hard way not to belittle friendship. It may not be as great as love to some but I just find the term 'just friends' a misnomer. If I had a nickle for every friendship that I lost because I didn't know the difference between friendship and love I would be a rich man. I have come to respect friendship. Never really have a real friend growing up I value it today when I meet people.

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RainbowSlider
Yellville USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:26 AM CST

I have had friends to help me by telling me no that is just lust you are feeling or just infatuation. I am glad they told me because I had trouble telling the difference.

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FlaOrTn
Nashville, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:43 AM CST

Definately! I did. Things just keep building and building! Friday night at 11:30pm PST we are going to meet for the first time.

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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:47 AM CST

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Morning handsome....

back at ya...you pretty thing you

this is not just an opinion

its the general consensus

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DamnitsCloudy
Lexington USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:48 AM CST

I well, I havn't fallen in love, I'm IN love with Becca, and I havn't meet her in reallife yet, but soon I hope! Shes going to introduce me to sushi, and little weiners that look like octopuses, and stuff like that whoooooo!

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mariegold

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:50 AM CST

i think yes you can but i still have doubt about it hard to believe?
anyways the feeling is there? and that's real?

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mariegold

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:53 AM CST

my friend beside me just told me yes you can it's in the way you explain thing's.....

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cutensassy

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 8:56 AM CST

Love you wikked but.............. I don't feel u can............................ but lots of other yummie feelings come with conversing back and forth when two people are into each other.

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rugman
forked river, New Jersey USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 9:07 AM CST

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oh thank goodness, I was checking my breath and everything!

;)

so was i

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kuza42368
keene, New Hampshire USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 9:12 AM CST

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Love you wikked but.............. I don't feel u can............................ but lots of other yummie feelings come with conversing back and forth when two people are into each other.

I think it is possible and also not because everyone is different. I mean you can agree with someone philosophically and email and get to know them but personally I can't do it now part of this is because i feel that to TRULY know someone, to feel that special chemistry, you have to meet and get to know each other for some time before falling in love.

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DAG60
Oregon City, Oregon USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 12:31 PM CST

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Definately! I did. Things just keep building and building! Friday night at 11:30pm PST we are going to meet for the first time.

Yes you can, and it is amazing on how you can fall in love before meeting, now it will just grow and the love will deepen!

Deb

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Funnybone
Pomerene, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2006, 12:35 PM CST

Yes you can fall in love with someone before you meet them. At least from what i've seen. However there has to be trust, and complete openess for that to happen.

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catwm
Somewhere in the middle, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 12:02 PM CST

I have seen many people fall in love online.

Honestly, I have never experienced that.

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soulmateTWS
somewhere, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 12:45 PM CST

I always thought that the possiblilty existed.......

Now I know that it can happen!!!!!!!!

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Thunderhawk

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 12:48 PM CST

I think you can. It is no secret that all real love starts out as friends first and it is my opinion that communication is the key to all lasting friendships. Words have a powerful way of getting into someones heart.

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soulmateTWS
somewhere, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 12:49 PM CST

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I think you can. It is no secret that all real love starts out as friends first and it is my opinion that communication is the key to all lasting friendships. Words have a powerful way of getting into someones heart.

you are so right......Very well put!!!!!!!You have to start somewhere!!!!!

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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 7:29 PM CST

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I think you can. It is no secret that all real love starts out as friends first and it is my opinion that communication is the key to all lasting friendships. Words have a powerful way of getting into someones heart.

Well said Bob...

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mstyeyez

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 7:30 PM CST

i think so

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Assets52
Bethlehem, New Hampshire USA

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 7:39 PM CST

Well then someone needs to give me lessons. I have met approx. 15 men from the internet. Some as friends and some I thought I couldn't live without.

Only one I was attracted to - the others, well I was almost embarrassed to be seen in public with them. Guess I just don't have the knack for it.

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odaat
Hartford, Connecticut USA

Posted: Jul 19, 2006, 7:42 PM CST

I hope so.

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