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What makes a good friend?

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:35 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
yeah I agree.. I'm vereee ruthless when it comes to all that tbh.

I would never betray a friend..

Someone I has great friends with (I thought).. for the last 12yrs.. she did it too me three times last year..

the first time.. I thought.. Oo okay.. a mistake..

the second time .. I thought.. hmmm.. OUCH!

and the third time I dropped her like a hot potato.

I'm pretty ruthless like that.. from being one of the closest people to me. I just cut her off totally .. (she REALLY hurt me tho).. it hurts me sometimes when I think of it.. what we BOTH don't have any more.. its very sad.

But three strikes and ya OUT!


WOW...You're too nice...I have a one strike and you're out rule when it comes to betrayal!!!!!!!!

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:37 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
WOW...You're too nice...I have a one strike and you're out rule when it comes to betrayal!!!!!!!!


hahaha.. well I was shocked.. so I was giving her the benefit of the doubt (tho it WAS logged and noted) laugh
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:39 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
hahaha.. well I was shocked.. so I was giving her the benefit of the doubt (tho it WAS logged and noted)


I've learned that if someone has it in them to betray you...it doesn't stop at just once...So I don't waste my time waiting for the second time!!!!!!!!!


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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:39 PM CST
Supportive, helpful and honest is what i look for.Not that i look for friends....i sort of inherit them.

Non judgemental, is always best attitude, along with someone that doesn't ask to borrow anything or ask for a loan!!

A open relationship based on honesty is best when one party isn't after anything and any help or advice is given freely on both sides.

Failing that i change my home phone number on a regular basislaugh
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oslojente
Olso Norway
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:41 PM CST
RobbieM wrote:
Supportive, helpful and honest is what i look for.Not that i look for friends....i sort of inherit them.

Non judgemental, is always best attitude, along with someone that doesn't ask to borrow anything or ask for a loan!!

A open relationship based on honesty is best when one party isn't after anything and any help or advice is given freely on both sides.

Failing that i change my home phone number on a regular basis


What the hell are you doing on here then??? rolling on the floor laughing


wave BTW
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:42 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I've learned that if someone has it in them to betray you...it doesn't stop at just once...So I don't waste my time waiting for the second time!!!!!!!!!


hmm thats a good point.
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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:44 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I've learned that if someone has it in them to betray you...it doesn't stop at just once...So I don't waste my time waiting for the second time!!!!!!!!!



Merciless, but just! cool wine
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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:46 PM CST
Someone who will watch your back and never let you down.
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:46 PM CST
gangel wrote:
Merciless, but just!


Nope I can honestly say I have no mercy for someone who betrays me...none at all...It keeps the crap out of my lkife cause I don't need it!!!!!!!

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:47 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Nope I can honestly say I have no mercy for someone who betrays me...none at all...It keeps the crap out of my lkife cause I don't need it!!!!!!!


blimey! I met someone even MORE ruthless than me laugh
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:50 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
blimey! I met someone even MORE ruthless than me


It's called experience and I try no to repeat my mistakes...I honestly wouldn't betray someone else so I have nothing left for someone who would betray me!!!!!!!!

I found giving the benefit of the doubt just prolonged the inevitable after the first time...so now I just cut it off at the pass!!!!!!!

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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:53 PM CST
oslojente wrote:
What the hell are you doing on here then??? BTW


Oh i forgot to mention i study psychology and mental illness, so there's always a few entertaining moments to be had watching the "fruitcakes" amble about.

You old them still, ill whack em with a stick!!!

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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 5:56 PM CST
The mutual harmony and loyalty between two people can only always help them in difficult situations and to even provide them security in certain ways. The importance of socializing will be destroyed if your friendships are insincere and if you relations depend on things different than trust, loyalty and understanding.professor
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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:00 PM CST
gangel wrote:
The mutual harmony and loyalty between two people can only always help them in difficult situations and to even provide them security in certain ways. The importance of socializing will be destroyed if your friendships are insincere and if you relations depend on things different than trust, loyalty and understanding.


Attempting to steal my cat and pinch my dvds wont help eitherrolling on the floor laughing
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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:02 PM CST
RobbieM wrote:
Attempting to steal my cat and pinch my dvds wont help either



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Detente
North West, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:03 PM CST
gangel wrote:
The mutual harmony and loyalty between two people can only always help them in difficult situations and to even provide them security in certain ways. The importance of socializing will be destroyed if your friendships are insincere and if you relations depend on things different than trust, loyalty and understanding.
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Can't understand people who have loads of friends.dunno

Jeez, to invest such effort in potential friends takes sooooo much time we couldn't possibly share this with too many!

drinking
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:03 PM CST
"A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else."



~Unknown~


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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:06 PM CST
Detente wrote:
Can't understand people who have loads of friends.

Jeez, to invest such effort in potential friends takes sooooo much time we couldn't possibly share this with too many!



Friends that you share your most private secrets with are much more than common people that you get in touch with everyday. professor
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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:07 PM CST

I always do a dvd count and see if the cats are missing!!! I'm hoping someone might pinch my nephew though, anyone want a messy 18 year old who cant wash up for shit but can generate mess like an experienced tramp?
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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: Mar 2, 2008, 6:08 PM CST
rolling on the floor laughing
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