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Then there are those that are so lost in misery,, that if you don't agree with their opinion, they will attempt lies or anything else it takes to destroy the other person.
I will not apologize to someone hell bent on taking me down with them.
Especially when someone tells me basically... Either you give me a public apology or I will take you down!

im the boss
the regulator
the matron
the monitor
all of you do as i say!!

MF might stand for many things

manipulation factor is not one of them

but i am pleading with you
please stop


((besides the moment anyone acts like they like me around here i suddenly become an object of scorn and worse))

The best way to improve things would be if everyone would ignore the ... uh, I mean ... no idiots is the only thing I can come up with.

Some people don't deserve to even be replied to. They'll never get that others have a different opinion, and they don't listen anyway, so what's the point? Something about throwing pearls before swine, not a good idea.

haha...oh mindfful, but u take the scorn so well..thats why they dish it to you, cuz they cant get u rattled..JMO

i find it hard but i have improved
in the area of not responding to direct attacks,
slanders on my character and the like
for some reason it seems ok to say really rude mean crude
and violent things to me

hey what do i know? maybe im keeping someones kid from getting beaten tonight...[/ quote]

Ok, the way you put that was really funny.



Thanks and check your mail.

Just ate and off to bed. *For real this time*

you will send the snake to protect her

DUUUH RICK!!!

me too Miss D, she nailed one aspect...
maybe she is more productive in the wee hours

You're not the boss of me

I tried to sleep for two hours and here I am... Dana, glad you appreciated my little attempt at humor...

woah...it got loud in here

i read some of whats posted in forums
and so much of it is so ridiculous,childish
and UNINVITING to new members...
those who post the stuff like "come out and show your face"
*whaaa??* man-what can one say about that?

good grief its a forum all we CAN do is share opinions!
do people act like this in real life?
like if someone doesnt agree w/ them they play victim
or attack them or avoid them?
no wonder so many people are online
theyve run out of people in their neighborhood..?

to name call '***********s'? -any of the names supposed 'groups' are given...?
arent these people in fact trying by that method
to form a group to stand up to the '**********s'? ( 'group')

as in "us, them and the spectators" ? awful mentality
at a dating site...honestly-so many members here, thousands- look at forums, look at our profile and our recent posts on it-to see maybe what we are like... and so many dont join forum
because of this stuff.

its just a backhanded way to portray oneself as
better than 'them' when in fact its pretty much exactly
what youre complaining about.
but its 'different' cuz youre doin it? or youre justified?
maybe cus 'they started it' ? 2 wrongs dont make a right.
and, yeah-its attracting singles in here in droves.

im stating my opinion
sometimes ya know, if we become offended
its a problem w/in our own ego.

personally i try not to let these people/groups
that are strangers
actually offend me
uhhhhduh?


no offense to anyone-it just gets tiresome
and drives potential members away-
unless they are the type that loves chaos-
then theyll run right in-like we need any more of thooose!!

I've been a free member of this free site for almost two years. I might complain a little if it cost me money. But, since you brought it up....I am just now learning that people go around behind the scenes e-mailing each other, about different people. Sneaky, secret, gossip kind of stuff. Clicking on profiles, reading everything a person writes, searching for who knows what excuse to say, or write who knows what.

I was genuinely surprised. I mean it! When I learned that people actually behave that way, I was in denial. I was like, "No Way! Who would do that? Who has time to do that? Who is really that involved in the electronic lives of virtual strangers?" I still find it sort of unfathomable. I don't even put that much effort, into people that I've actually met or talked to on the phone. Perhaps I'm too carefree. Perhaps I don't take people seriously enough.

I vow to be more involved in everyone's cyber life. Psyche! No I don't.

i find it hard but i have improved
in the area of not responding to direct attacks,
slanders on my character and the like
for some reason it seems ok to say really rude mean crude
and violent things to me

hey what do i know? maybe im keeping someones kid from getting beaten tonight...