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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 1:16 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
what is included under the banner of flirting ??


I think not a whole lot...I'd feel a bit self-conscious flirting under a banner announcing it...confused help wink
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vintagerock
karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 1:17 PM CST
Ambrose2007 wrote:
Oh, I think I've got it! You ROCK, baby!


*curtsies* thankyou kindly!
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 1:18 PM CST
vintagerock wrote:
*curtsies* thankyou kindly!
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 1:52 PM CST
rasgumby wrote:
What the heck... this thing mixed up my words when it posted

Hey Ms Ambrose, shave that face and I might consider taking ya out.

is what I had written


Yeah right, you were just so taken by his beauty that you were too flustered to write...lol
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 2:01 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
hmm.. so Is flirting healthy ?

ohh , firstly .. what do u categorise as flirting ? and healthy flirting ?

Is healthy flirting permissible .. if yes ..

Is it permissible when in a relationship also ?

Where do we draw the lines to flirting ?


Sometimes I'm really bad at flirting, meaning I can flirt outrageously if I'm not careful...lol There's a guy here at work (one of the custodians) that I've been flirting with since school started in August. Hasn't done me a whole lot of good though...lol Things I would do are stationing myself at the office entrance to be able to say hi when he goes by....going up to the counter to talk to him instead of staying at my desk....searching him out when I need something....when he was working mornings for a week I called him on the cell phone just to say good morning (don't do that with the regular guy)....even asked him a couple times if he'd be interested in going out (never got a response either way)....and here recently even making sure that there's a smoothie set aside for him. Like I said, hasn't really worked much...lol

I think everyone flirts at some point. Of course, if I'm in a committed relationship the only person I'll flirt with is the person I'm in a relationship with. And I think continuing to flirt with that person helps to show that the interest & desire is still there.
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Zellarrone1
Hull, Humberside, England UK
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 3:53 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
hmm.. so Is flirting healthy ?

ohh , firstly .. what do u categorise as flirting ? and healthy flirting ?

Is healthy flirting permissible .. if yes ..

Is it permissible when in a relationship also ?

Where do we draw the lines to flirting ?
I think flirting is healthy between a couple. With strangers or workmates or people we know vaguely then I'm not so sure it's healthy.

The signs can be misread or flirting taken the wrong way and lead to sexual harrassment or a sexual assault of some kind. I've experienced this a couple of times so am very careful now not to even subconsciously flirt and give mixed signals out cool
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Mar 5, 2008, 12:30 AM CST
Zellarrone1 wrote:
I think flirting is healthy between a couple. With strangers or workmates or people we know vaguely then I'm not so sure it's healthy.

The signs can be misread or flirting taken the wrong way and lead to sexual harrassment or a sexual assault of some kind. I've experienced this a couple of times so am very careful now not to even subconsciously flirt and give mixed signals out


so true.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 5, 2008, 3:25 AM CST
Zellarrone1 wrote:
I think flirting is healthy between a couple. With strangers or workmates or people we know vaguely then I'm not so sure it's healthy.

The signs can be misread or flirting taken the wrong way and lead to sexual harrassment or a sexual assault of some kind. I've experienced this a couple of times so am very careful now not to even subconsciously flirt and give mixed signals out


You are over a thousand miles away. go ahead and flirt with me all you want- you are safe!wink peace
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 5, 2008, 7:57 AM CST
Zellarrone1 wrote:
I think flirting is healthy between a couple. With strangers or workmates or people we know vaguely then I'm not so sure it's healthy.

The signs can be misread or flirting taken the wrong way and lead to sexual harrassment or a sexual assault of some kind. I've experienced this a couple of times so am very careful now not to even subconsciously flirt and give mixed signals out


I agree...Not to mention I have too much self-respect to act like a ho or a pig to get men to notice me...Hey if ya can't like me for who I am without me acting like I wanna jump your bones...Then I prefer you don't like me at allllllllll!!!!!!!!!!

NOT to mention...it can come off lookin like you're kinda desperate and pathetic....If you're in a relationship and still flirting...I think it spells disrespect to your partner...

rolling eyes help grin
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Mar 5, 2008, 8:03 AM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I agree...Not to mention I have too much self-respect to act like a ho or a pig to get men to notice me...Hey if ya can't like me for who I am without me acting like I wanna jump your bones...Then I prefer you don't like me at allllllllll!!!!!!!!!!

NOT to mention...it can come off lookin like you're kinda desperate and pathetic....If you're in a relationship and still flirting...I think it spells disrespect to your partner...


yeah me too.. thumbs down thats a baaaaaad sign IMO
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