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Hell! People what it is with TRUST thing?

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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:20 PM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
A person who did it to poor Russian man ... an evil .... Just normal Evil


It could have been worse, he could have fallen prey to the serial killer who chopped up and ate about 130 in Moscow.

Jeez, can you imagine his apartment?

Evil is everywhere dear, as well as the insane, and sadly guns as well to arm the mad.Mind you a maniac with a spoon is a worry especially if you've been invited to dinner by a man you meet on the net in germany as a fetish for eating someone.

How the hell can anyone want to be actually eaten?
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:21 PM CST
constanza wrote:
By that I mean I am practical; I move on, and no, my new partner will not be paying the price of my past failures. I see him as a new person in my life, deserving of respect and the opportunity to show me who he is and what he feels for me.


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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:22 PM CST
Ambrose2007 wrote:
You can trust completely when you've finally decided you are loved completely, I think. Well, maybe not completely, but *fundamentally* (there's always some little secret or secrets that other people hold back, but you can still rely on them fundamentally if they love you).


Yes until someone has given you the reasons to know that...It's up in the air...which is always a hard place to be...one of the hardest places for me to be is in the beginning of a new relationship because it takes time to know the person..if it's gonna go anyplace and if so can you trust the person not to hurt you!!!!!!!!

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:23 PM CST
constanza wrote:
By that I mean I am practical; I move on, and no, my new partner will not be paying the price of my past failures. I see him as a new person in my life, deserving of respect and the opportunity to show me who he is and what he feels for me.



I like your attitude. I have a thought ( I might be wrong) Practical personalities do not get stuck on
unsuccessful relationships. People with more gushy, romantic souls they seems like tend to ponder on Whys? and Hows? Whats? They do torture themself to spiritual death with questions that actualy do not have any reasonable answers. conversing here's to you
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:26 PM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
I like your attitude. I have a thought ( I might be wrong) Practical personalities do not get stuck on
unsuccessful relationships. People with more gushy, romantic souls they seems like tend to ponder on Whys? and Hows? Whats? They do torture themself to spiritual death with questions that actualy do not have any reasonable answers.



I am very sentimental, but I have had to become also more practical, and I now know better that to waste years on the wrong relationship. I think the learning never stops about ourselves and others.
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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:27 PM CST
Ambrose2007 wrote:
You can trust completely when you've finally decided you are loved completely, I think. Well, maybe not completely, but *fundamentally* (there's always some little secret or secrets that other people hold back, but you can still rely on them fundamentally if they love you).


Awesome Sir! thumbs up

I like that term fundamental.... A stone corner of everything in our lives cheers
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:29 PM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
Sorry Lush, I should have said .... "difficult" instead of HARD
That adjective it is for another thread about sex issues


Oh Koni. I wasn't even thinking that.

wink giggle

Nice thread by the way, i'm glad i have my trust in someone who deserves it. innocent

Hope it happens for everyone. thumbs up

g'nite i need to get up early and do a swot analysis for some company. yawn


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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:29 PM CST
constanza wrote:
I am very sentimental, but I have had to become also more practical, and I now know better that to waste years on the wrong relationship. I think the learning never stops about ourselves and others.



Funny thing that you mention asking yourself questions; I have a confession to make. I never ask myself those questions; I more or less feel a situation rather than verbalize it mentally.
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:31 PM CST
constanza wrote:
Funny thing that you mention asking yourself questions; I have a confession to make. I never ask myself those questions; I more or less feel a situation rather than verbalize it mentally.


I don't either because if it's a bad relationship...a) I don't care and b) it's true they are futile and can't be answered or you don't need the answer!!!!!!!!



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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:32 PM CST
RobbieM wrote:
It could have been worse, he could have fallen prey to the serial killer who chopped up and ate about 130 in Moscow.

Jeez, can you imagine his apartment?

Evil is everywhere dear, as well as the insane, and sadly guns as well to arm the mad.Mind you a maniac with a spoon is a worry especially if you've been invited to dinner by a man you meet on the net in germany as a fetish for eating someone.

How the hell can anyone want to be actually eaten?





Anthony Hopkins has a couple of examples on How the hell can anyone want to be actually eaten?laugh

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:35 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
Oh Koni. I wasn't even thinking that .



Nice thread by the way, i'm glad i have my trust in someone who deserves it.

Hope it happens for everyone.

i need to get up early and do a swot analysis for some company.




yeah! yeah! yeah! of course you weren't laugh

You go yawn analysis are very important professor

Nighty Night hug
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:36 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I don't either because if it's a bad relationship...a) I don't care and b) it's true they are futile and can't be answered or you don't need the answer!!!!!!!!



Also when you ask yourself questions I feel it's as though you still didn't get it somehow; but emotionally we all get it; feelings do not lie; and so I advise you to feel the truth in a situation more than to try to make logixcal sense of a big emotional mess.
Factual things are easily evident, but feelings have to be understood emotionally not with questions.
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CuspofMagic
Space/Energy---, Piedmont Italy
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:39 PM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
Can you just brush it off your heart and from your mind ... and to be normal and happy persons?

Is it so hard ... to let it go?

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yep - nope-yep- nope
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:39 PM CST
constanza wrote:
Also when you ask yourself questions I feel it's as though you still didn't get it somehow; but emotionally we all get it; feelings do not lie; and so I advise you to feel the truth in a situation more than to try to make logixcal sense of a big emotional mess.
Factual things are easily evident, but feelings have to be understood emotionally not with questions.


Yes and understood for yourself so you can heal from it....not for a dead end or bad relationship to continue!!!!!!!!!!!



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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:43 PM CST
Detente wrote:
On the attitude of the offender.

Yes we should divest ourselves of resentment at the earliest oppurtunity, otherwise it becomes self destructive.

But to simply welcome them back into our lives with open arms? Nope...

Prudency surely dictates that we exercise caution...we 'test' the waters so to speak.

Does that make sense, or is it too cerebral?




I think i got it .... and again the results vary based on ... 1) If you use two feet to test the waters or 2) you use only one. conversing I think the biggest mistake people make ... they do fall in Love too fast ... they jump in that feeling with both feet. When we do so ... we have to remember that love do not lasts forever in Peace and Harmony... there is always something hits a fan ... time from time. And we have to be ready for this conversing

and a big warm hug to you hug Jeez! i feel such a tenderness for you Oh! Wise one ... Don't know why dunno
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:46 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Yes and understood for yourself so you can heal from it....not for a dead end or bad relationship to continue!!!!!!!!!!!


wink cheers
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Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:46 PM CST
If you never take a chance on trust again you will always be empty,I have been wrong too but to look ahead and say I will never trust again? nah,not for me.at least not in a search for a mate.professor I really like my hat there,wish I could find a cowgirl hat though yee haadancing banana head banger applause
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:49 PM CST

Those answers don't need to come from the other person is what I really mean...but from yourself!!!!!!!!

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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 7:50 PM CST
Konigsberg wrote:
Anthony Hopkins has a couple of examples on How the hell can anyone want to be actually eaten?


I saw the film and when he started carving his brain i did go faintly green in the cinema.

Cranial saws are just not my thing.laugh
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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: Mar 4, 2008, 8:05 PM CST
RobbieM wrote:
I saw the film and when he started carving his brain i did go faintly green in the cinema.

Cranial saws are just not my thing.


I did enjoy a scene of eating liver of untalanted Violinist.... he deserved to be served .... *covers ears* violin

What part of body do you enjoy the most then? devil
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