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why is it when you look at a girls profile you read it and they describe there ideal guy........and put there looking for honest,caring,funny guy (etc).....mention nothing about attractiveness, you message them too see if they fancy chat....you see that they have looked at your profile but dont reply back? i think its just rude not too least say something back not like your asking too marry them or anything they act like there just too good for you.

Women are...erm...unusual at times...but in a totally splendid way of course.

awww willy, i'm sure it had nothing to do with you...i check out a million profiles but i don't talk to all of them...i'd be here all day if i did that...don't take it personally!

It happens the other way around too. Don't take it personally.

Unusual wasn't the word I was thinking of..................But I guess it will do

Sometimes as men, we need to take a really long honest look in the mirror of self reflection. After we have done this, we must be prepared to admit that alot of women are too good for us.

awww djo that was sweet! i hope i fall into that category? hmmm that sounds a little mean...almost the equivalent of kicking you somewhere rather sensitive....i'm sorry! didn't mean it the way it came out!

I think I can answer this unusual question,it is because of the WOW factor,if the person sending is not wow to the one getting the message then that is probably the problem,has nothing to do with you as a person just no clicking going on and you have to have click! goodluck

sure it does happen too u woman also that sucks too....im talking about messaging those girls in IM or email in IM see open 2sec later close then go see that they have looked at ur profile just crazy......really do think need too put SHALLOW in there profiles instead of acting like there not be honest say say shallow...talked too some great people on here feel could talked too more if stop lying in there profiles

sssmmmooooth,but it also applies to women as well

now there is that word shallow,it is not that at all,I personally will not accept an instant message because you never know who it is,usually for me it is some 18 year old kid,what does he want on my site?!!! what are we supposed to answer back? sorry sir not intersted? would that be better?

dio......i think thats it........messaging woman out off our leagues but end of day.....only chat...sometimes gets annoying im not sweating it...some have msg me talked too me they have been great...

irish if get IM takes 2secs go 2 there profile see there not kid...if ur busy dont wanna chat just now i mean just say look im busy maybe we can talk later or something

theres just someone there i msg say looking for friends guess what happens..CLOSED lol so now your friends got look certain way..lolol

Don't IM without first knowing that it's okay. If I get an IM from someone I don't know, I close it.

maybe that is just it,maybe they are not clicking,it happens to women too,so I have been told but it is nothing to worry about,we are all in a box of chocolates sir,there are plenty of more pieces,chill and enjoy

hmmm....not so much for the word shallow, anyways, just cuz women choose not to answer ur IM or view ur profile or dont answer ur email..I dont feel qualify as shallow, but thats JMO. Many are here looking for someone and maybe you dont trip their trigger, so if they dont answer or click you off..just move to the next one. If the woman are interested I would think they would respond. I personally no longer us my IM or answer all of the emails..why? I dont like not knowing first who is trying to instantly chat, so I turned it off. With the emails, some men and i said some...leave rude or vulgar emails or give you their live history and I have no desire to answer them. Then again other times I have received not so nice comments, cuz i replied but they didnt get the answer they wanted. Thats my reasoning, but I dont feel that makes me shallow...

lol dont worry tomorrow ill be fine...lol...just letting off some steam

blue wouldnt answer them either if they were rude...i dont send rude or disrectful mail...certainly aint telling someone my life story in 1 night..lol

cool..i was just throwing out options on why maybe they dont answer and do what they do...