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What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?

Maybe we scare them...

It's called chilly water syndrom.

Test the waters with big toe until the first freeze hits or a shark comes a calling.....

Yes my thoughts exactly

RAWR

The swedish ones get banned on their first day. At least two of them did.

I wish love, peace and prosperity for my swedish neighbours.

Maybe they want to be seen,known and then wait for mail from interested parties? Then again we may have scared thm off,depends when they were on reading threads.

I'm still here. The difference is that I never actually said, hi; I jumped right in and started talking. So, Hi everyone.

Juse nosey thoughts. Anyone in particular you're missing? We'll hunt him down.

Ah! yes that what I have done 3 years ago.

Welcome ... you do have guts .............. Boooo!

It takes a lot more than a place like this to scare me off.

lol Nawww I am happy with a set of people we do have on Forums ... with all of them. I've been wondering.

Ummm ... I haven't noticed anyone from Finland as well, Princess.

why do they get banned? for what reason and by who? I have heard that the members that have been here a while scare them off,at least that is what I have read in a couple of threads,I saw one disappear because people were suspicious of her

That's what I think too ... but again ...isn't it it gonna be more productive to stay on Forums?

There was only two of them who got booted that i know of, they were just suspicious i guess.

"Hi" threads are usually polite ones, most people will pop in and give a warm welcome to any persons introducing themselves.

Thats a huge contrast to what happens in all he other threads, where even if a new person makes it and posts an oppinion or two, he is soon discouraged by being ignored by all the "mutually aquanted" here exchanging kisses, jokes and teasing each other.

Some members of this site have tried to voice this concern recently but their concerns came off as a "scolding" on all the fun in this foroums - where it shouldnt have been understood as such (IMHO).

When a new person is trying to join in on a thread, it pays to be noticed and commented upon - its encouraging for him/her to keep comming back until he/she feels comfortable enough to roam the site freely. Its something upon which all of us could benefit as it would give us a chance to get aquinted with how more people think - a crucial factor in searching for a partner.

Overall, having fun is fun, but lets not keep it with our friends - lets encourage the new people we see to keep posting. And thats not just if the new person is a hot chick with some cool pictures - as i have seen happening.

I'm a newbie. You guys/gals scare the hell out of me