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Got this from a website and thought it was pretty funny...


No doubt there are countless things you do that turn your man into a lust-fueled fool. But on the flip side, there are also subtle behaviors that abate your allure faster than it takes a pair of Hollywood lovebirds to get engaged. Here are a handful of them:

Public "Evacuation"

You may be a princess in his eyes; however, seeing you on the "royal throne" can be disconcerting or, at the very least, unpleasant. Take it from Sean,* 34: "I had a girlfriend who thought that being able to go to the bathroom in front of each other was a measure of how close we were," he says. "I'm sorry, but watching her — or any woman for that matter — saddle up to the ivory pony doesn't make me feel more connected ... It makes me kind of sick." Look, we know you're human. But when nature calls, answer with the door closed — please!

Catty Chatter

"On the drive home from my friend's housewarming party, the girl I was dating — past tense! — started bad-mouthing the other women she met that night," says Thomas, 30. "She literally had something nasty to say about every female there. By the time she finished her rant, I was like, either all of my friends suck or this chick is an insecure idiot. I decided it was the latter and got rid of her." And there you have it: Nothing turns a dude's stomach like a claws-out bitch session.

Hard-Core Maintenance

Watching you smooth scented lotion all over your bare legs? Priceless. But you couldn't even pay a guy to eyewitness the ugly side of getting pretty — think clipping your toenails, extracting a blackhead, flossing those back teeth. Just ask Walter, 28: "Maybe it's not totally PC, but I want my girl to be sugar and spice and everything nice," he admits. "I mean, I don't really need to know that my girlfriend uses a special antifungal cream to help keep her yeast infection at bay. Gross! Let me keep the fantasy alive."

In-His-Face Flirting

Sure, being playful with another man may score you a free drink or get you out of a speeding ticket. But by the umpteenth hair flip and giggle, your guy's wondering just how "friendly" you would get if he weren't right next to you. Allow Liam, 19, to elaborate: "My last girlfriend knew how to work a room," he says. "But too often her flirting would get out of control, like she actually wanted the other guys. Before long, I started to view her antics as cheap rather than charming."

I'll agree with A, B and D, but C doesn't bother me.

omygosh JB
i read about a third and said


thanks-i wasnt disappointed

I've had a couple of boyfriends that would agree with you... they have actually liked watching me put on makeup...

The D men don't really turn my crank either...

It struck me as funny because I know a woman who actually uses point A to gauge the level of her relationship!

A bit of fun and flirting I don't mind, but some men and women just don't seem to know where to draw the line!

I dated someone a year who wouldn't let me see her w/o make up. I always wondered what was under the mask~~~


And no, she wasn't the Lone Ranger~

Public "Evacuation"

You may be a princess in his eyes; however, seeing you on the "royal throne" can be disconcerting or, at the very least, unpleasant. Take it from Sean,* 34: "I had a girlfriend who thought that being able to go to the bathroom in front of each other was a measure of how close we were," he says. "I'm sorry, but watching her — or any woman for that matter — saddle up to the ivory pony doesn't make me feel more connected ... It makes me kind of sick." Look, we know you're human. But when nature calls, answer with the door closed — please
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Well .. i am not a guy... but one day my boyfriend confessed to me ... that he had a girlfriend who just loved to hold his penis while he was peeing ... ( never stops to amaze of peoples hobbies)

So to make a story short ... he had to get rid of her ... because her behavior began to freak him out ( I think he was more worring about his penis )

I figure if they see me at my worst... they'll appreciate me at my best!!!

Yup~~

Yeah thats how I see it..

I could tell a story about an ex who has done all four

The A, B & C are definite turn-offs but D wouldn't bother me too much but then Jealousy is an emotion i just don't do.....

i agree with A,B,C but D doesn't really bother me that much...

...i usually have a really great bonds with my girlfriends and regardless if they were flirting they know i could move on(most definitely) if she ever went to far...i usually give them the 'are you serious look"

I'll agree with all of these...

And my ex-husband also liked watching me put on make-up. He sad he liked watching the transformation.

I wouldn't WANT someone to watch me on the loo.. or cutting my toenails and all that jazz.


I LIKE myyy Pri- vasssy.


Shrek x

cool
im not the only one w/ that no make up/make up strategy

yeah I think it's quite handy letting them see you at your worst.. if they STILL think you look good then.. you are in with a good chance.

I wouldn't do any of these things in front of the man in my life. I never have either.


My last boyfriend saw me looking my worst the first few times he saw me. He probably barely recognized me when he saw my hair down and my face on. "laugh:

Public evacuation.....

Good god!