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Actually I said feminism a little tongue in cheek. I also said that there many inter-related sociological reasons. I agree with you about demonstrating your emotions in a positive way, and I suppose for us mere men that,s what we think we are doing when we,re not.

Having said that, even if a man or woman does do all that could be expected in showing his or her love emotionally it,s no gaurantee that that man or woman will be faithful.

Also, I don,t hang out with any women, I was talking about the women that I come into contact with on a sort of routine basis.

I think the point I was trying to make was that the way in which our lives have changed in a general way, including feminism, greater opportunities for women in terms of going out to work (which BTW I do support) has changed the way in which we live in an individual way.

Hope this clarifies what I was trying to say.

you are cute!!

I don't know. I haven't been with every woman in the world.

I've read something somewhere- and I think I agree: Men and women
each have a list of "needs" which we consider totally important in a relationship- the list may vary, but they are basically the same, but in a different order. When these needs are not met, that is when a partner strays. i.e: for men sex is usually on, or near the top of the list- (for women, its maybe 3 or 4). If this need is not met, its likely he'll stray. For women, conversation, security, closeness, may near the top. And when these needs are not met its likely she'll stray. Now of course everyone has different needs, but thats the basic idea. In my experience, I would have to say its about correct. So the idea is, that if we can be more aware of our partners needs- without being obsessive about it of course, this may lessen, if not eliminate the occurence of cheating. Just a thought....

That's definitely the way a god relationship should be...However...I have to disagree with the cheating part..If you're not happy and getting your needs met...then have the courage to get out....then find someone...I don't think there is EVER an exscuse to cheat....

I know, I know!!!!

Why don't all the unfaithful scummy men get together with the unfaithful women.. and have unfaithful scummy lives.. .and we can all live happily ever after..

years ago during a very difficult patch in a relationship of mine I drunkenly snogged a guy (once) and felt like absolute crap!!! how can people feel comfortable with themselves... I just don't think its worth the sickening guilt..

Good idea! Lets build an island for them, and wave them off on their merry way!

Good idea...let them all play each other and have fun doin it!!!!!!!!!!





I don't know how people that cheat can live with themselves...No conscience I guess....

Well..the idea is, that if they are having their needs met they wouldn't cheat. If your basic- that is- most important- needs are being met, there should- ideally be any cheating, as both parties would be happy and satisfied.
What i'm saying here is- this is how we eliminate cheating.

I dunno.... what DID happen??

Oh I forgot to add....AND leave the rest of us the hell ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree!!!!! How can somebody cheat on someone they love I could never understand that.

By the way, on a sligtly un-related subject. I was slightly bothered by the fact the someone actually rated my photo a 1!!! While I recieved a couple decent scores- I know its stupid to even pay attention to these things- nevertheless- What is it about my photo that is not attractive? It must be my hairline... ? I should mention that when I uploaded my photo some time back I had no idea they would be judged! In any case i noticed the photos that recieved the high scores where generally of people half naked, showing off their "bod". To vote a 1...just not cool.

Damn... My idol just went down the toilet!
I'm so shacked!

I am proud of the kind of woman that i am..honest faithful loyal witty charming a good all rounder...problem for me is finding a guy with the same qualities...some of us still exist.R.