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Is it cheating???

Missouri personals
rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:54 AM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
from one alabamian to another? you know dang well you would much rather be snuggled up against your hunk of a man if you had one,just like the rest of us, well with one exception..........doc.Ras, and our girl accusay


Then come on over!
I have plenty of instant coffee,, just let me know when, so I can get all of these animals to the basement!

But that could be tricky.. we are in a flood watch till tomorrow night.
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:54 AM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
from one alabamian to another? you know dang well you would much rather be snuggled up against your hunk of a man if you had one,just like the rest of us, well with one exception..........doc.Ras, and our girl accusay


True, but I'd probably still have some free time, you can't snuggle 24/7, unfortunately. grin I'd still be here when I wanted to talk to others, just probably not as much.
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Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:57 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
If it is something you wouldn't do with your partner sitting right next to you, it is something you shouldn't be doing.
but go further... would you be willing to give your SO- your pasword. let them read everything you have done here?
if not.. you are cheating!
As I see it, your partner should be one of the biggest assets in your life.

But again I will go further,
I think if you are in a relationship and say you are just here for friends and forums.. I think it is bullshit!
this IS a singles site.
There are plenty of chat sites that are not based on singles.
Not based on sexual talk and flirting.


If you are in a relationship or married and need to be on a singles site.... Something is missing in your relationship.
if you have friends from here before you get into a relationship, but want to stay in touch with these friends, that is what email and yahoo or msn messenger is for.
But thats just my black or white - wrong or right rule.
just my opinion .
but I believe- keep life simple.


But not everyone of these people get in to dirty talk or flirting .. so maybe they are plain having a good time .. dunno

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Alabama matchmaking
alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:57 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Darn right!
And Im dying for it to get warm enough to go back out there and get more!


It's warm enough here now, feel like a road trip? laugh

Heck, it doesn't have to be warm for the fishermen we have here. They were out a couple weeks ago when we had snow! D'oh! Idiots!
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Tennessee personals
dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:57 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
If you can find a chat site that's as interesting and as much fun as this one, let me know, I'll be there. I've looked, haven't found anywhere with the quality of people that are here. I am single, but not really looking at this point, but I still like it here, and not to hook up with men, but to meet and talk to all kinds of people. It's like a big party, that you don't have to get dressed for.



I was looking for another one last week that we might be able to play truth or dare on but I couldn't find anything nearly as good as this one.
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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:58 AM CST
prncss4someone wrote:
she's not the one hugging a fish....



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Texas singles
irishlass45
Bristol England/Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 1:58 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
True, but I'd probably still have some free time, you can't snuggle 24/7, unfortunately. I'd still be here when I wanted to talk to others, just probably not as much.

hence the email girlfriend, his point was it is for singles and I understand your point too, I don't hardly go to other sites either but I would find other things to do off of here anyway with or without him, just our diff which I do respect yours gfhug hug lips
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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:01 AM CST
I would stay here. Even now I have I have that I am just here for the forums, but I like the people, I like the discussions. I would stay.

However, I wouldn't hide anything from him. I would want him to be on here too. It's just a fun site. I do

Yes, it is cheating if you have to hide it from your SO. JMO
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irishlass45
Bristol England/Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:01 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
Then come on over!
I have plenty of instant coffee,, just let me know when, so I can get all of these animals to the basement!

But that could be tricky.. we are in a flood watch till tomorrow night.

I don't do instant, pun intendedlaugh and the only boat I will row is a canoe, not too heavy but just right going down a stream, man that is starting to sound good to melaugh
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Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:02 AM CST
dcj22 wrote:
I would stay here. Even now I have I have that I am just here for the forums, but I like the people, I like the discussions. I would stay.

However, I wouldn't hide anything from him. I would want him to be on here too. It's just a fun site. I do
Yes, it is cheating if you have to hide it from your SO. JMO


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irishlass45
Bristol England/Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:03 AM CST
dcj22 wrote:
I would stay here. Even now I have I have that I am just here for the forums, but I like the people, I like the discussions. I would stay.

However, I wouldn't hide anything from him. I would want him to be on here too. It's just a fun site. I do

Yes, it is cheating if you have to hide it from your SO. JMO

it's easy to say when you don't have a hunk in your life though, be truthful you could be being biased since you are single right?
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Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:09 AM CST

Ohh .. i agree with the no need to hide part .. but its also possible that you mention about it and he's fine with you being on a website and being happy and not being bothered !!

It wont be cheating then. dunno
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Missouri personals
rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:11 AM CST
riyablossom wrote:
But not everyone of these people get in to dirty talk or flirting .. so maybe they are plain having a good time ..


My only point is... I would not want my partner here is I had one, and I wouldn't be here either.
it is named connecting singles. So by right.. to be here.. one is saying that they are single.

And as I said previously.. have had married women hitting on me before I added into my profile.." if you are Married- just go away"

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:12 AM CST
Virtual affairs can end up hurting someone's heart also , especially when a few have been played off at a time.

If I was in a 'real life' relationship and I state 'real life' meaning meeting the person, touching, feeling, feeling their heart beat, looking into their eyes, as much as I enjoy being on here, I would hope that I had better things to do with my partner, besides sitting in chat rooms.


JMO.


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irishlass45
Bristol England/Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:13 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
My only point is... I would not want my partner here is I had one, and I wouldn't be here either.
it is named connecting singles. So by right.. to be here.. one is saying that they are single.

And as I said previously.. have had married women hitting on me before I added into my profile.." if you are Married- just go away"

lips I can do that because I am singlegiggle
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irishlass45
Bristol England/Texas USA, Texas USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:14 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Virtual affairs can end up hurting someone's heart also , especially when a few have been played off at a time.

If I was in a 'real life' relationship and I state 'real life' meaning meeting the person, touching, feeling, feeling their heart beat, looking into their eyes, as much as I enjoy being on here, I would hope that I had better things to do with my partner, besides sitting in chat rooms.JMO.

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Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:14 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:

My only point is... I would not want my partner here is I had one, and I wouldn't be here either.
it is named connecting singles. So by right.. to be here.. one is saying that they are single.


hmm ok.

[quote=rasgumby]
And as I said previously.. have had married women hitting on me before I added into my profile.." if you are Married- just go away"

This is sure frustrating ..


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Missouri personals
rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:14 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Virtual affairs can end up hurting someone's heart also , especially when a few have been played off at a time.

If I was in a 'real life' relationship and I state 'real life' meaning meeting the person, touching, feeling, feeling their heart beat, looking into their eyes, as much as I enjoy being on here, I would hope that I had better things to do with my partner, besides sitting in chat rooms.JMO.


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Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:15 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Virtual affairs can end up hurting someone's heart also , especially when a few have been played off at a time.

If I was in a 'real life' relationship and I state 'real life' meaning meeting the person, touching, feeling, feeling their heart beat, looking into their eyes, as much as I enjoy being on here, I would hope that I had better things to do with my partner, besides sitting in chat rooms.JMO.


I agree. wave
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HzChld
Somewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Mar 18, 2008, 2:18 AM CST
rasgumby wrote:
If it is something you wouldn't do with your partner sitting right next to you, it is something you shouldn't be doing.
but go further... would you be willing to give your SO- your pasword. let them read everything you have done here?
if not.. you are cheating!
As I see it, your partner should be one of the biggest assets in your life.

But again I will go further,
I think if you are in a relationship and say you are just here for friends and forums.. I think it is bullshit!
this IS a singles site.
There are plenty of chat sites that are not based on singles.
Not based on sexual talk and flirting.

If you are in a relationship or married and need to be on a singles site.... Something is missing in your relationship.
if you have friends from here before you get into a relationship, but want to stay in touch with these friends, that is what email and yahoo or msn messenger is for.
But thats just my black or white - wrong or right rule.
just my opinion .
but I believe- keep life simple.


With all due respect sir, I thank you for your time and opinion stated. I am not married, but am very recently living with someone. I have, and would have, no problem whatsoever giving him full access to EVERY password to my email accounts and this site. By the way, he does know I am on this Forum from time to time. I am however, not here as often as I use to be. I find reading and posting here an enjoyable thing. I believe my profile states that I am here for the Forums and Friends. I have met some very nice people here and enjoy conversing with them on this site. I do not necessarily believe that people here that may be in relationship are on this site because something is lacking. There are many reasons people could possibly be here. handshake wave
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