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What can I say... Im truly old school.

Like the old saying
"dance with the one who brung ya"

Precisely.!!

(nope am not married either )

From the looks of things on my end, I may be single again...very soon...

hence something lacking

You have hit the nail on the head with this one doc, I am proud of you, please send your funds to the smarty britches corp.whatever address he gives you dot whatever

So honestly..... people come here because IT IS a singles site........
then you have 15 women that are taken and not looking. and dont want guys to flirt with them.
So please tell me how that is at all fair to the other members?
and no.... we shouldnt have to read every profile just to send a flower.

Also.. look closer... many (not all) of the women that claim to taken are the ones doing a lot of the really heavy flirting

but the same with men.

USUALLY I agree with you, Ras. And I'll admit I came her out of curiosity as to the possibility of finding someone.

Now I'm here for the forums. The layout is much better than most debate forum sites.

Yes, ABSOLUTELY, I would give my partner my password to this site. Not my bank password, though...been down THAT road.

I DO however agree, that if what you do here is something you don't want your partner to see, then you ARE cheating in a way.

are you single goose?

emmm....
pooof...

.splat....




there people, Ras is now off his soapbox...hurry, get the duct tape!!!

Isn't a relationship about sharing each other and all you have. Yeah I've been down that road too, I think the majority of us all have. But I will remain that my opinion is a relationship is based on a couple not a 'singular'.

Talking to others, dancing with others, is not cheating, unless you're doing it behind your partner's back. JMHO, you're entitled to yours.

NO KIDDING!!!!!!!

Every is entitled to their opinions! no one needs to agree with me.

I resent that!!!!
I have never used a soapbox,, thats why I fell off of my roof

does that mean that you will give out your bank info...

No and don't sit on his couch, or cook in his microwave, or touch his stuff either.

If it does not bother your partner and it is listed,,,,just maybe imo,but personally I would not tolerate my man comming on here talking to single women,nope and it has nothing to do with trust,he just shouldn't be doing it if he is with me because I would not be on here talking to single men,period.And I know some will say well what about your free time, I think to those that are saying that,that they are giving themselves a false sense of statements,in other words I don't believe them.jmho no offense intended so I hope none was taken,those who know me know I speak from old school myself.

sending a flower ... this part i do agree entirely !!
Ok .. please dont get me wrong Ras as i do respect you a lot for your thoughts ..

Singles site this is .. yes. But the options provided by the website say .. looking ( again different options here ) , friends , penpals etc .. there are so many. So the people who arent looking are justified in being here.

Now .. " they dont want us to flirt with them" . I am not sure of this cos personally i can understand how you would think and not want to flirt. I think similarly.. But a lot of people find it harmless flirting , sometimes good fun and sometimes just playing along. Yes.. damaging flirting also happens.

Point is.. it cant be one sided. There are always two people involved.. so considering people as mature adults, whatever suits each other really. Its for them to think .



Now this is something i have noticed here and there .But i honestly stay out of certain threads that i know i wouldnt be able to participate in for whatever easons .. so i cant say with confidence.

I am a little old fashioned in my thinknig and have a different opinion. But hither too i think its the sense of mature adult behavior thats important. Important to know that the other person could be someone's existing or potential partner and that our behavior in no way should fuel any disharmony in their lives.

So its individual discretion me thinks.

I agree to a point. I have nothing to hide. BUT....to give out my personal bank codes..That person would have to be "the one" (The ex wife took EVERYTHING when we split).

But the account with my partner would be joint eventually anyway.

The business accounts I have are shared with a partner, so it wouldn't be something I could give out freely.