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Need help getting that bur off from under your saddle?
I've had every penny taken before.. not going to happen again.

Why do you think so many women get scammed and their life savings stolen??
I am not fool enough to hand anyone my $$$$.

And very few smart women will either.

sounds like you have trust issues....what has made you so jaded?

Sorry but you are barking up the wrong tree,,,
I share everything... but that don't mean I have to hand over my wallet.

Then call me a fool. Becasue I believe a reltionship is based on sharing everything.

I supported two husbands, sure we can all give our personal sob stories.

But better then money or possesions. I will not let anyone change the person I am.

Bring your hangups and selfishness to me and its pretty easy.

Hit the road.


Am I stupid no.......................I'll keep my heart.

Whatever

even the dumbest dog will start running away every time he sees ya.. if you kick him enough times!

And Im sure as hell smarter than a dog.

so you are saying letting someone scam you and not protecting what you have worked your entire life to attain is an issue?

So I would also assume that you think having Insurance on your car is stupid also!

I mean seriously... get into a wreck what the hell.... just going to loose a lot of $$$$.
why protect yourself... right

goodnight,theRanger of county Kerry is now seeking sleep to everyone and hope I did not offend anyone with my humble opinions,it was not intended

next time!

I am not calling you anything!
but I have seen too many women do it,,,
work like a dog with a old man that just sits around drinking beer and wont work and keeps them broke...

Thats no life.

Point 1: I never said anything about being stupid--that's all in your mind...
Point 2: Having insurance on a vehicle has nothing to do with a relationship with another.
Point 3: Why would you be with someone who you think will scam you?
Point 4: You skirted the issue quite nicely, but all fog and smoke will not blind me to that fact.

Ras I am far from having a go at you. I am simply stating my feelings and beliefs as are you. I do believe however until we open up and trust again, we will remain shut and noone can possibly enter our lives.


Not everyone is painted with the same brush. I may be just a dreamer.

no issue,
the only smoke and mirrors are from you.
But if any gal has a problem with my not just handing her everything I have without proving herself first.
she is the one with an huge issue, not me.

talk to yourself all you want.
you want to try to twist what I say to mean something else.. thats your problem.. not mine.

everyone else can see what I'm saying.
But if you want to try to make someone look stupid _ go find an idiot.
it ain't flying here

wOw, someone has hurt you very badly...I am sorry for that....hopefully time does heal all wounds....

I agree! but there is no reason to ever let a man just use you!
You deserve better!

Just as I refuse to wear blinders when looking for a partner.
trust is earned... not just freely given.
But isnt that what a long dating period is for?

actually, for me anyway, trust is given freely if abused, it is NEVER given again....

and


I have come across Ras's type of thinking before, could not understand it for the life of me, therefore, what could have been, never was, and won't be - due to the "earn trust" "give trust" factor...........