Skeptikos: Come, cum to me now.
This is not a "life-porn-community" - this is a single site,where people are(mostly at least

)respectfully,curious,friendly and sweet trying to get to know eachother a little bit.
What I read inbetween your lines is,that you're probably all your life watched other guys getting the girl and now you - for once - wanted heads turning your way...sort of like the loudest kid in class,searching desperately for attention....
Come on man!! You can do better. Throw that bottle in the garbage,SHAVE!!(for christ sakes) and start out with a wink and a smile from a distance....add some charm to your life,it can only open doors...and it won't hurt,I promise