mindfful: so we believe someone saying they have a certain problem
but we are stunned when they act out?
and give them margin for it because they SAID they are sick?
ooooohok
well guilt was proven to me when he wrote me
the first 2 times the day he got here
he kept his word
he now has 'friends'(again) and one more time im the bad guy
either he has a special talent or people are really predictable
the guy is like a grade A shrink i guess
and congrats to him
if makin me look bad is one of his main hobbies-as he says
he is quite fulfilled
gee im envioushave a lovely day all
please take care of him
poor chap
MF...
You are NOT the bad guy .. at ALL. Don't be a numpty!
I have never spoken to him really on the forums.. or ever off the forums.
neither do I feel sorry for him.. as far as I'm concerned.. you keep YOURSELF in
those places.. no one can change your life.. but YOU.. (not you MF btw lol)
If you are sad.. depressed.. down.. suicidal.. drinking.. whatever..
Thats YOUR choice.. no one is making you feel that way. .. YOU are
allowing it to
be that way. IMO.
Nor have I ever felt the need
to take care of him.. what's the point? been there done that.. (many times) and it doesn't work. NO ONE will listen and change.. unless THEY want too. So I'd be wasting my breath.
If he
wants to change his life.. he will.. if he wants to wallow in misery.. he will.. that's his choice.